Plate wont blów me

[bigneil]

The girl I'm currently with has never gone down on me after 4 dates and lots of sex, and I haven't pushed the issue. Personally, I couldn't care less about receiving oral sex. I love giving oral sex because it gets them extremely wet and willing and turns me on. But receiving it always felt boring to me. Some girls insist on going down on me. I've never been one to insist a girl go down on me. I don't think they like it when guys do that. As long as she lets you have sex with her, it shouldn't matter.

I disagree that not giving head means he is less Alpha. If she only gave head but wouldn't have sex, that would be worse.

If the girl loves having sex but doesn't want oral sex, that is about her preferences, not your masculinity. If she doesn't like sex in any form however, that's a different matter.

Remember, to 99% of women, French kissing is the most intimate thing of all.

 

[Jetleg]

Update on this. So I talked about this issue with her, and made her see that I was starting to feel she was just being selfish by not reciprocating (or even trying) oral sex to me. She agreed, and asked me how important was it to me. I said of course its important to me, it feels good for you too right?

So, next sessions she did make an effort and engaged in said action, albeit she is still needing alot of coaching....

Now, as I mentioned before, she is very inexperienced in bed (from my experiences comparing to other girls) and really doesnt do or move alot. This is clearly something not positive for me. The good part, is that she is quite submissive and will comply to almost anything I tell her to do.

But here comes the part that probably will surprise the fellow DJ´s: she is 38! How often is a 38 year old like this?

So my question to the experienced DJs here, is this something you would tolerate going forward? Mind you, she is only a plate, nothing more.

If she didnt do what you asked her to do in bed, she is not submissive enough.

Talking to her about it was a mistake and it makes you look needy "pls give me BJ".

Next time just shove her head on you c0ck, how about that?

 

[Roober]

If a girl is totally into you, then she will do anything for you, and I mean anything. Well, the one exception is the backdoor, some women are just not into that at all, nothing you can do to change that. You don't EVER EVER EVER talk about it, you are just not hitting the right buttons. When my exgf was totally into me, we would be making out and getting heavy foreplay, she would literally throw me off her, and just go to town until I was completely empty. This shows a woman that is totally into you because she is putting your needs before hers. It does nothing for her and the ending is unpleasant for most women. My exwife hated to do it, but still did it on occasion although she was aweful at it.

Also, no coaching unless she asks. She shouldn't have to if you are giving her verbal and body cues. Women are very self conscious about their BJ skills. You coach or stop her and you likely won't get it again.

 

[Juanto]

Also, no coaching unless she asks

She did ask for it, and complied to it once it was given.