"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Proper use of texting

BreezyB84

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How does a DJ PROPERLY use texting and what are the rules?? Is there a thread for this already ?


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How does a DJ PROPERLY use texting and what are the rules?? Is there a thread for this already ?


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Text to set up date. Time. Place. Don't waste your time getting to know her with your phone. Do that in person. Over texting will drive her interest down and cause the chance of flaking to increase.

You- "Hi (girls name.) It's Bill from the other night. Join me for coffee/dinner/drinks etc.... at "place" at "time o'clock on thursday.

Her "sounds great. I would love to join you."

You - " see you then."

Her " whats your opinion on the bla bla bla subject. Especially bla bla blay?"

You " would love to talk but im running a very tight schedule. See you thursday."

Her " but bla bla bla. "

You NOTHING
 

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Text to set up date. Time. Place. Don't waste your time getting to know her with your phone. Do that in person. Over texting will drive her interest down and cause the chance of flaking to increase.

You- "Hi (girls name.) It's Bill from the other night. Join me for coffee/dinner/drinks etc.... at "place" at "time o'clock on thursday.

Her "sounds great. I would love to join you."

You - " see you then."

Her " whats your opinion on the bla bla bla subject. Especially bla bla blay?"

You " would love to talk but im running a very tight schedule. See you thursday."

Her " but bla bla bla. "

You NOTHING
Precisely
 
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