Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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I don't...I struggle to believe that women are that dumb but more power to you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I don't...I struggle to believe that women are that dumb but more power to you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I agree. I've done it to three or four different women, none of them dumb, and they took the hook, bait and the sinker. You've gotta finesse it - can't make it too obvious but you can structure just enough into the text to put that fly inside her skull and f*ck up her day, at least.I don't...
LOL...that line alone made the entire post worthwhile, and I'm sure made your day too. Nicely done.(after a day of no contact): Her: I guess we aren't friends anymore? :/
I only do it to the ones who set out to waste your time/try to make you an orbitor. That's a pretty toxic mindset that that particular woman has, IMO. Giving them a taste of their own medicine gives me hope that maybe they won't waste some of our brother's time in the future.This is another reason I don't use this kind of tactic. Why do I care about messing up her day? If you're doing that, I'd say you care too much. Besides, why should I want to? Just because it didn't work out between us? Childish.
If she were to send me a text like this, I wouldn't give a rat's one way or other. When it's time to move on, move on. There are other women out there.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It's not about being dumb...it's a fact that the emotional brain is more powerful and will override the rational brain, so the point is when your words create a strong emotional reaction in the girl then her rational thinking brain that would filter those kind of game is taking a passenger seat and the emotional one is the one who is driving her actions and responses.I struggle to believe that women are that dumb but more power to you.
Of course it's childish, but it's the childish thrill that makes it fun. Like running through the sprinklers in your underpants.This is another reason I don't use this kind of tactic. Why do I care about messing up her day? If you're doing that, I'd say you care too much. Besides, why should I want to? Just because it didn't work out between us? Childish.
If she were to send me a text like this, I wouldn't give a rat's one way or other. When it's time to move on, move on. There are other women out there.
I agree. I wouldn't pull it every time, but I have a Tarantino-esque love of a good revenge plot, particularly when the victim so obviously deserves it. I feel like the "Dexter" of trifling hoe's when I am able to pull it off. Street justice.I only do it to the ones who set out to waste your time/try to make you an orbitor. That's a pretty toxic mindset that that particular woman has, IMO. Giving them a taste of their own medicine gives me hope that maybe they won't waste some of our brother's time in the future.
I delete and remove them on social media platforms AFTER they see I'm getting hit up by a new chick. It's gold.You're better off posting something on Social Media because, obviously, the girl in question is going to see it.
Anything for pictures with other girls, even just random girls you meet somewhere, to small text exchanges.
I delete numbers fast but I don't generally remove them on social media platforms.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
And this is kind of the same thing really, as the fake wrong number text followed by silence. It's just the visual version. Leave them up there long enough to see that you're happily draped in women, and then pull the curtain and lock the door. If you allow them to keep looking, eventually they will desensitize and get over it. You show them just enough to plant the worst fear seed in their heads, and then go dark. Their imaginations will do the rest and be far more self-torturous and sadistic to them than your pics could ever be. Street justice...lolI delete and remove them on social media platforms AFTER they see I'm getting hit up by a new chick. It's gold.