Violence

[phil2015]

Hey Guys,
Just wondering if any of you have ever had a girl physically hit you?
This weekend gone, my GF and I had a first proper argument after 5 months,
and I decided to terminate the relationship. I told her I had had enough and she
leapt on me and became physically violent, with slaps and punches to the head.
She was also verbally abusive and began shouting and getting aggressive towards
me.
She has had 3 relationships in her life before me and all of them have contained some
form of violence.
Have any of you experienced anything like this?
Regards
Phil

 

[dude99]

Hey Guys,
Just wondering if any of you have ever had a girl physically hit you?
This weekend gone, my GF and I had a first proper argument after 5 months,
and I decided to terminate the relationship. I told her I had had enough and she
leapt on me and became physically violent, with slaps and punches to the head.
She was also verbally abusive and began shouting and getting aggressive towards
me.
She has had 3 relationships in her life before me and all of them have contained some
form of violence.
Have any of you experienced anything like this?
Regards
Phil

Yes. Had an ex years ago who would hit and punch. She wasn't actually strong enough to hurt me very much but still it was a huge problem. She would fly into rages when she didn't get her way.

Women know that men are programed since childhood that hitting a girl is 100% wrong. So when a hot headed violent minded chick looses her $#!t if they know you won't hit them (which 99% of guys won't) they feel violence is the key to winning.

Best thing to do is dump and walk away. This mentality with them will never change.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Years ago I had a physical relationship with a chick. To be fair, she started most of the aggravation, but my reactions were hardly ideal.

Long story short, things won't change. They'll probably only get worse, especially for you. Put it this way. The one time I really retaliated in my own situation, I ended up in a cell for the evening. She'll beat on you and beat on you without consequence; until eventually one day you'll snap; and bang, police are called.

Best thing you can do is walk away. If she's got prior experience as well, it means it's more than likely a problem with her (regardless of what she claims), which SHE needs to address. It's means she's used to getting away with it.

Don't be that guy. You deserve better.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Yeah mostly my mom or my sisters lol. I remember once when I was 8 or 9, we were supposed to wait for my dad to get home and take us out to a buffet, and he told us if we ate anything we weren't gonna go. He was 2 hours late so about 1.5 hours in I microwave one of those small chimichanga burritoes and eat one just to have something in my system. My older sis flew off the handle and began screaming at me and I was yelling at her that it was just one burrito and it wasnt gonna fill me up. And for the first time in my life, I chose to leave the situation and just ignore it. Well my sister couldn't stand the fact that she was being ignored so she took one of the phones (those big bulky landlines) and threw it at the back of my head when I was sitting down. My head was bleeding like crazy. No hospitalization though. My dad flipped **** on her once he got home, but also smacked me on my lip after he was done with her saying that it was my fault too and that I shouldn't have eaten....
Honestly, me and my siblings used to fight a lot, but we don't anymore.

I don't think I have hit a girl hit me besides my sisters and mom though. There was one chick who came close to last year though. The high school I transferred to senior year was EXTREMELY liberal, the men were complete FVCKING pvssies and the women were overly entitled snobs. The school I came from before that though pretty much only had alpha males. Their traits rubbed off on me so going to that new high school, I wasn't gonna take sh!t from anyone, adults included lol. This chick couldn't handle me and my friends joking around in a 'poke fun at' way and thought we were seriously insulting one chick (I was the only guy in this group of friends). So this b!tch gets mad and starts cussing out one of my friends, saying that she needs to mind her own business and stop making fun of the other girl. I tell her she herself isn't minding her own business and that the girl (the one that this b!tch thought we were making fun of) did the same to us and didn't care. The girl herself said that she didn't care, yet b!tchface was still pissed off.
After I tell her that she needs to mind her own business she gets up from her seat, walks over, and tells me I need to shut the **** up, with a fist raised. I was taking everything pretty lightly up until that point. My sh!t-eating grin fades and I stand up right in her face. I was considerably taller than her and the funny thing is, she backed up some. I stared at her dead in her eye and her friends kinda took her away so she broke eye contact first.
If she hit me, I wouldn't have hit her back, but I would have pushed her away, prolly as hard as I could. Truthfully, the only thing at that moment barring me from unleashing my full fury on her was the weight of the societal construct restricting men from hitting women. She was lucky though....

 

[dude99]

I've had a few hit me and I've always laughed while they were hitting me, which in my mind is the best way to handle it. I'm 6'2" 215 lbs. NO courtroom is gonna side with me.

Agreed best way is to handle it is to laugh.

I used to say to my ex "let me know when your done," it drove her into furious rage to know even hitting me had almost zero effect.

 

[dustmuffin]

We had a neighborhood girl that blacked the eye of just about every boy on the block. She tried that with me and I blooded her nose. I walk away now if I get angry.

 

[sazc]

Hey Guys,
Just wondering if any of you have ever had a girl physically hit you?
This weekend gone, my GF and I had a first proper argument after 5 months,
and I decided to terminate the relationship. I told her I had had enough and she
leapt on me and became physically violent, with slaps and punches to the head.
She was also verbally abusive and began shouting and getting aggressive towards
me.
She has had 3 relationships in her life before me and all of them have contained some
form of violence.
Have any of you experienced anything like this?
Regards
Phil

Be glad you were smart enough to get out

 

[Billtx49]

Be glad you were smart enough to get out

It's a no win situation for men. You get physical also and you screwed the pooch, if you refrain, you look weak to her, no matter what you say to her. Bottom line, it signals her underlying lack of respect for men, or lack of her having any boundaries, or some type of hidden psychosis, or a personality disorder.
Exit stage left on her asap.

 

[El Payaso]

Report her to the cops.

Yeah, they will probably not do much but at least the report will be on her record and there will be a history of her getting violent.

 

[SmooveMooves]

I think a woman should be too scared to hit you. Years in the gym plus a no nonsense attitude when it comes to arguments and disagreements and I find that a woman wouldn't dare. Maybe I just didn't find one crazy enough yet.

 

[dude99]

I think a woman should be too scared to hit you. Years in the gym plus a no nonsense attitude when it comes to arguments and disagreements and I find that a woman wouldn't dare. Maybe I just didn't find one crazy enough yet.

They are out there.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

It's another **** test..
Personally I think a lot of women need a damm good spanking once in a while for disrespectful behaviour.

 

[YawataNoKami]

I am of the thought process that if you hit someone, you'd better expect to get hit back. I'm not saying it okay, I'm just saying it's not fair to hide behind the fact that simply because of gender, you can get away with hitting and not expect the other person to hit back I response.

 

[Billtx49]

It's another **** test..
Personally I think a lot of women need a damm good spanking once in a while for disrespectful behaviour.

I don't think it's a **** test. I personally think it's an unstable woman's behavior times 10.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Maybe, but it might also be because no one has ever corrected their behavior and everyone has caved in and let them away with it.

I am not talking about being a psycho wifebeater "I beat her ass just in case."
I an talking about letting her know that is not tolerated.
I think sometimes women get violent because they are desperately trying to get their men to give them boundaries. I work with children (posters on here often say treat women like children) and often I see children from very gentle forgiving homes look so relieved when they discover firm consistent rules for the first time in their lives.

That is what I mean when I say it is a **** test. It is a test to see if you got what it takes.

Sometimes they are just a crazy beeatch.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

highly, highly unlikely and based on the ego-fueled fantasy that you're so much different than the last 20 guys she f*ckd. Even if it were true the only person who could ever have corrected such behavior is daddy.

Agree with this. A man can expect to address mild social and emotional issues with swift and blunt corrections, but physical violence is significant of psychological disturbance. Without professional help, violence might disappear (temporarily), but the disturbance would likely manifest in other guises - infidelity, substance abuse, excess emotion etc.

 

[The Duke]

I had one that tried to hit me while driving. I dumped her on the side of the road and never went back for her. We did reconcile, and never had a problem ever again.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

@LARaiders85 and @TheMonkeyKing, yeah, fair points. I know that realistically, even spanking a woman will probably get you jail time if she chooses to make a big deal out of it, whether she started it or not.

Maybe it is regret. I have an ex-wife that I wish to God I had put over my knee when she had started being a *****. It wouldn't have changed anything and might have made things worse but they went to **** anyway.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

Women gauge men for the abuse you will take. Then they act accordingly. They are basically bullies.

I know a 32 year old woman, who caught her 27 year old, musician, waifish boyfriend texting another woman from her bed. She told me she would have beaten the sh*t out of him, but knew he would "call the cops". This was in February. Fast forward to this summer and fall, and she has a new boyfriend with a criminal, violent record and has done actual prison time. Not jail, prison. And she has beaten on him at least twice that I know of, giving him quite a black eye the second time. She knows that he will neither hit back, nor call the cops, because of his record.
So she only pulls that crap with a man that she knows will take it and not fight back in any way.
Textbook definition of the word bully.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

I had one that tried to hit me while driving. I dumped her on the side of the road and never went back for her. We did reconcile, and never had a problem ever again.

My first wife did that to me, just because she was drunk and I pulled her out of her 10 year high school reunion because she was acting like an attention starved slut and was being totally disrespectful to me and our relationship. I just pushed her face up against the door window and held her there, driving with one hand, until she got her sh*t together.
I did a bit on the radio about a similar situation where ****ie Betts punched his wife while she was driving him home from the airport. "Never, ever hit someone who is driving a car you are in. He should have waited at least until they were at a light!!" lol