“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hello sosuave,

I want to start building my plates and start small first by going on these dating apps, are they still a thing, are girls still going on Tinder? What apps do you recommend? Any advice will be helpful in building plates.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The only thing you get from tinder if you're an average guy is time lost, an headache and your self confidence bashed.

80% of the girls there are looking for an ego boost, to pass time or seek attention.

That 20% looking for a guy is gonna have good looking guys hitting on them making their criteria stricter and stricter no matter how ugly or fat they are.

There is not even a weight of game there cause if you dont look hot they are not gonna match you or if they do by mistake they aint gonna read or answer.

It was good untill it became mainstream and the ratio between guys and girls turned it into a sausagefest, that 80% of unavailable girls makes it even worse.

Even cold approach is a better strategy despite the low percentage of success for average guys, at least you can play your cards there.

In tinder you are your profile picture, 90% of your value is that.
 

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The only thing you get from tinder if you're an average guy is time lost, an headache and your self confidence bashed.

80% of the girls there are looking for an ego boost, to pass time or seek attention.

That 20% looking for a guy is gonna have good looking guys hitting on them making their criteria stricter and stricter no matter how ugly or fat they are.

There is not even a weight of game there cause if you dont look hot they are not gonna match you or if they do by mistake they aint gonna read or answer.

It was good untill it became mainstream and the ratio between guys and girls turned it into a sausagefest, that 80% of unavailable girls makes it even worse.

Even cold approach is a better strategy despite the low percentage of success for average guys, at least you can play your cards there.

In tinder you are your profile picture, 90% of your value is that.
The cold approach is super effective.
 

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The only thing you get from tinder if you're an average guy is time lost, an headache and your self confidence bashed.

80% of the girls there are looking for an ego boost, to pass time or seek attention.

That 20% looking for a guy is gonna have good looking guys hitting on them making their criteria stricter and stricter no matter how ugly or fat they are.

There is not even a weight of game there cause if you dont look hot they are not gonna match you or if they do by mistake they aint gonna read or answer.

It was good untill it became mainstream and the ratio between guys and girls turned it into a sausagefest, that 80% of unavailable girls makes it even worse.

Even cold approach is a better strategy despite the low percentage of success for average guys, at least you can play your cards there.

In tinder you are your profile picture, 90% of your value is that.
So if you are hot, with a smoking hot bod, on tinder it will be like shooting fish in a barrel?
 

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It was good a few years back. Now women just use it for validation, attention and ego boost.
 

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I ve had good looking girls off OKcupid, RSVP, match and even POF. you do have to resist any temptation to chase them. even last year I broke my own rules about the maximum number of messages. some of these b1tches r amazingly cunning when it comes to extracting time and attention from guys. why do they bother? who knows
 

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I ve had good looking girls off OKcupid, RSVP, match and even POF. you do have to resist any temptation to chase them. even last year I broke my own rules about the maximum number of messages. some of these b1tches r amazingly cunning when it comes to extracting time and attention from guys. why do they bother? who knows
For them it's like real live attention and it gets their adrenaline and confidence pumped up. So it's an easier and cheaper way to get that done.
 

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To me the best part of any form of online dating is the practice. you learn how to hook their interest pass their s*** tests, organise Logistics and deal with reschedules recognise booty calls etc. and if you have any level of game that gets you laid on the regular which takes the edge off. everytime I trade in an ltr I go back to online dating like I'm going back to the dojo after a layoff. I make the old mistakes laugh at myself and shake the rust off.
 

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will use it if i am bored or want to kill some time

wouldn't ever try to arrange a date on there , may attempt a couple of booty calls / hookups but thats about as far as it goes

as others have said the majority of women will just use it for an ego boost or to send screen shots to theyre girlfreinds

"omg look how many guys want me" i must be amazing

ive had it for around 2 or so years , ive had around 4 or 5 direct lays in that period from it but it is largely seen as uncool in my area now
 
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