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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Blockbuster Date - Template

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Gentleman, I present the blueprint of the blockbuster date. This is the date they will always remember. This works for several dates in a row as long as you change the venue. It is not a cheap date, costing about $400 ($200 - $600 depending on whether you get a hotel and the quality of the hotel). If you have a girl you only see once a month, this is the date that will keep her interested. If you want to propose to a girl (don't), this template will work. If you are dating a much younger girl, this template will work. If you are taking out a model for a photoshoot, this template will work. If you have never had sex yet, this template will work.

1) Find a hotel that features a great restaurant. These will cost $150 - $450. Make sure it has an exciting lobby. If you can afford it, get a room by yourself. She will not be under any obligation to stay. She doesn't even have to know you are staying. You will enjoy staying by yourself if necessary. Upon checkin, before the attendant chooses you room, hand them $5-$20 cash and say "this is for you". They will make it up to you by giving you any perks they can. Don't miss a chance to hit on the girls who work there, they are good girls. Try to get a room with either a hot tub, balcony or at least a couch.

2) Make reservations for the hotel restaurant around 9pm (you will have invited her to the restaurant before booking, making sure you can cancel 24 hours prior). Don't tell her you are staying at the hotel.

3) Have her meet you in the lobby of the hotel around 8pm.

4) Take some pictures of her early when her hair and makeup are perfect. I like making 10 second videos where they don't know I'm rolling but think it's just a photo.

5) From the hotel, walk to a nearby trendy restaurant. The walk together is a great way to break the ice, ease her nerves, and ends up being the most memorable part of the date. Drinks and appetizers cost about $50. Stay out at a few places to prolong the date if desired.

6) Walk back to the hotel and have dinner at the hotel. Dinner will cost about $150 (less if no alcohol).

7) Be sure to kiss her at some point. Any time you are in the elevator alone together and it starts to move, that's the ideal time to kiss her IMO. If she doesn't kiss in the elevator, dump her.

8) Tell her she doesn't have to come in the room but invite her. Have a good bottle of wine and 2 wine glasses (rinsed with water) in the room. She might stay or play but don't put any pressure on her.

9) At the 3 or 4 hour mark of the date (before midnight), if she doesn't want to stay, walk her to her Uber and cover her cab fare.

10) After she writes to thank you for the date (if she doesn't you walk), you can share the photos you took which will capture the date.

11) Share the photos on Facebook to build your reputation as the master of the Blockbuster date. They will pay dividends on every future girl and scorch your exes! In effect, you are impressing dozens of women with this date.
 

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1. Comedy club tickets: $30
2. Ménage trois wine bottle: $12
3. Applebees appetizers delivery: $20
4. Hot tub with backyard view : free
5. Music from radio: free
6. 3 condoms: $2.75

Total: $64.75 block buster date split between 2.

Your blockbuster date sounds like a lot of work and time for the possibility for sex.
 

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I've found one that likes football. Granted she's overweight a bit, but her pvssy is average (good enough for my moderately larger-than-average c0ck). I mean she Genuinely likes our home team and knows the names of all the players (I only know a couple cause I don't really givafvck). She can recite stats, but I can too on the few ones I know...really more Detailed stats than she can muster for other players. She's pretty tough too and I can fvck her REALLY hard, the harder the better, she likes it. Smaller or thinner girls don't particularly like hard fvcking. I'll be fvcking her later on tonight. I haven't fvcked her in the as5 yet, will try. We don't even need lube cause she's always wet by the time I enter her, and pretty much stays wet. A lot of fat girls have unattractive pvssies, but hers is very nice to look at (no kids). I've been with fatter mom of 2+ kids and it's just a disgusting looking pvssy, sorry, I can't hang on to that, and those are the extremely desperate ones, that you know, show up at your house at 3 am with a flashlight beating on/ringing your door.

So just homebodying/cuddling is the Cheapest way to a fvck, but if I can't do that then I certainly can spend liberally when I Must go out to dinner or whatever costs money, like Firing range $150+ in ammo gas range fee, bite to eat afterward. Archery is very cheap. Cycling or biking is very cheap (she has to have a good one though and be somewhat serious - those already have orbiter males, bike enthusiasts, for miles though). Then there's women in business (dangerous though) or a house wife that wants a quick fvck and she's touchy-feely with you and you know that's what she wants so you give it to her quickly. I can make very lesser girls get a glimpse or a belief that I'm Single and willing to let them try to snag me (they know I make money/am desired). She'll be like "omg, this guy really does appear single..Imma flatter him, and say how much I want to see him again (instead of some other associate of mine)" It's like a light switches on and she thinks she knows that I am just hers to take if she wants. But of course, I'm bangin aplenty and she wouldn't like that if she could see beyond what I'm presenting her. She wouldn't like that while technically I am single, I am definitely involved with other girls all the time. I learned this, how to be a portrayal of yourself as "not having anyone" from a oneitis back in September 2005 - 2006. She was cute and Appeared to have No one and expressed she had no "boyfriend" and gave me her number (without my asking) and that vulnerability she gave off turned me on somehow like I'm like "how...does she not have.." She appears to think low of herself, but she DID have several orbiters unbeknownst to me, and she Knew what she was doing. She knew Exactly what she was doing putting me under her spell, a very powerful gripping spell then. So I've used what she did to me on many other women. I show vulnerableness and get her in to tunnel vision. Then I take away, that I am taken, and I am, for the moment, for that week. Everytime she sees me she asks me why I haven't called her or taken her... this place that place like I said I would. She knows I am being occupied by another.
 

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I've found one that likes football. Granted she's overweight a bit, but her pvssy is average (good enough for my moderately larger-than-average c0ck). I mean she Genuinely likes our home team and knows the names of all the players (I only know a couple cause I don't really givafvck). She can recite stats, but I can too on the few ones I know...really more Detailed stats than she can muster for other players. She's pretty tough too and I can fvck her REALLY hard, the harder the better, she likes it. Smaller or thinner girls don't particularly like hard fvcking. I'll be fvcking her later on tonight. I haven't fvcked her in the as5 yet, will try. We don't even need lube cause she's always wet by the time I enter her, and pretty much stays wet. A lot of fat girls have unattractive pvssies, but hers is very nice to look at (no kids). I've been with fatter mom of 2+ kids and it's just a disgusting looking pvssy, sorry, I can't hang on to that, and those are the extremely desperate ones, that you know, show up at your house at 3 am with a flashlight beating on/ringing your door.

So just homebodying/cuddling is the Cheapest way to a fvck, but if I can't do that then I certainly can spend liberally when I Must go out to dinner or whatever costs money, like Firing range $150+ in ammo gas range fee, bite to eat afterward. Archery is very cheap. Cycling or biking is very cheap (she has to have a good one though and be somewhat serious - those already have orbiter males, bike enthusiasts, for miles though). Then there's women in business (dangerous though) or a house wife that wants a quick fvck and she's touchy-feely with you and you know that's what she wants so you give it to her quickly. I can make very lesser girls get a glimpse or a belief that I'm Single and willing to let them try to snag me (they know I make money/am desired). She'll be like "omg, this guy really does appear single..Imma flatter him, and say how much I want to see him again (instead of some other associate of mine)" It's like a light switches on and she thinks she knows that I am just hers to take if she wants. But of course, I'm bangin aplenty and she wouldn't like that if she could see beyond what I'm presenting her. She wouldn't like that while technically I am single, I am definitely involved with other girls all the time. I learned this, how to be a portrayal of yourself as "not having anyone" from a oneitis back in September 2005 - 2006. She was cute and Appeared to have No one and expressed she had no "boyfriend" and gave me her number (without my asking) and that vulnerability she gave off turned me on somehow like I'm like "how...does she not have.." She appears to think low of herself, but she DID have several orbiters unbeknownst to me, and she Knew what she was doing. She knew Exactly what she was doing putting me under her spell, a very powerful gripping spell then. So I've used what she did to me on many other women. I show vulnerableness and get her in to tunnel vision. Then I take away, that I am taken, and I am, for the moment, for that week. Everytime she sees me she asks me why I haven't called her or taken her... this place that place like I said I would. She knows I am being occupied by another.
I think the underlined is what is happening to me right now.... it's like a bait and switch
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I fvcked her in the as5 last night briefly. It really wasn't all that great after a hour of fvcking her every which way, so I continue fvcking her pvssy. I don't know, fvcking a woman in the as5 just makes me feel one step closer to homodom. I'll never really do it again, I guess. The pvssy is where your c0ck should be and that's where it feels best for me. One thing, though, as I mentioned, she is fat (got a belly), but her arms/legs aren't flabby (actually taught or muscular). She has one tattoo. Smart girl and wide-eyed. Liberal (voting for Hillary despite not liking her). Very sexual, just breathing, kissing, comes before I even stick it in. Gets wet quick from rubbing her pvssy, and it just keeps coming, so no lube ever needed.

Really, I'm already getting bored with her as I do most women. I usually get bored when a woman finally gives me ALL of her. It's like, what else is there left to do?? with her. On to the next one. A threesome would be cool. I need to go on back to thin ones to compare/contrast. She expects me to be with her next week and through winter I guess and is really getting attached, but I must move on, getting bored. I can't IMAGINE being married to the same woman for more than a month (of sex, though I've fvcked the same woman for 4 months straight before, though I have come back to the same woman a year later or several months later, but sex gets BORING for me With. The. Same. Woman. over time) unless you're sacrificing to raise your children.
 

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1. Take her to a bar. Buy drinks - £7
2. Drive each other to the next bar to play pool. If she is decent then she will offer to buy the next round. Price of pool - £3
3. Tease her whilst playing pool and tell her she will win a prize If she beats you in one game. Touch her several times. Let her win one game.
4. Drive her back to her place/ lot wherever. Whilst parked up - kiss her. Tell her that's her surprise.

Total cost of date - £10.
 

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1. Take her to a bar. Buy drinks - £7
2. Drive each other to the next bar to play pool. If she is decent then she will offer to buy the next round. Price of pool - £3
3. Tease her whilst playing pool and tell her she will win a prize If she beats you in one game. Touch her several times. Let her win one game.
4. Drive her back to her place/ lot wherever. Whilst parked up - kiss her. Tell her that's her surprise.

Total cost of date - £10.
yep they love it when you stand behind them and touch their sides while she bends over for a shot cheap date
 

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This beta bucks stuff that bigneil is proposing sounds really expensive. Bigneil you should probably invest that money in a house instead of spending it on women.
 

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This beta bucks stuff that bigneil is proposing sounds really expensive. Bigneil you should probably invest that money in a house instead of spending it on women.
Oh it works. Older sister is exclusive with a nice dude beta. Lives in philly, 750 miles away. She flies to see him once a month and has an extravagant weekend in philly, NYC, wherever. Does it the next month and he flies here. Problem is, it's not maintainable in the long run. He's moving here and she wants to move in with him. What happens when they have to see each other during everyday monotony and not out on great adventures flying around the country. 90% chance they break up because they had the best honeymoon phase ever and it will backfire over the long run because they can't keep that momentum going.


I can see it clear as day, but the hamster wheel is spinning 100mph right now and she's thinking about gumdrops and unicorns
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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This beta bucks stuff that bigneil is proposing sounds really expensive. Bigneil you should probably invest that money in a house instead of spending it on women.
Depending on where he lives (cost of living/homes), he could swing that much on women a week and have the house paid off in a few years.
 

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This beta bucks stuff that bigneil is proposing sounds really expensive.
Let me go out on a limb and put this forward, if I get shouted down so be it:
I don't know if the term "beta bucks" is necessarily accurate in this case. I may be wrong, but I tend to associate that term with a man who is essentially buying commitment - a woman who settles for a guy so she can live off his resources. Neil is a plate spinner, and is essentially buying sex, using his money for fun as he sees it. He and a lot of other guys have compared women with prostitutes - "you pay for it one way or the other" - that sort of thing.

Maybe we could call it "alpha bucks" lol. If a guy works hard on his body, he gets nothing but praise here. But if he works hard to be successful and get money, and then uses that money to his advantage, he gets called a beta. Seems like that could be a double standard.
 

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Meet up for coffee, spend time getting to know her, kino, push/pull - $10AUD
Suggest we go for a drive along the beach - $5 petrol
Walk on the beach then wait for the moment to go for the kiss - FREE

Fvck her in your car.
 

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Meet up for coffee, spend time getting to know her, kino, push/pull - $10AUD
Suggest we go for a drive along the beach - $5 petrol
Walk on the beach then wait for the moment to go for the kiss - FREE

Fvck her in your car.
Go shopping with her at a new store everyone's raving about. Eh, you may spend on a few items for her, or if she's just as gainfully employed as you are, spend nothing, up to $200 I'd say depending on how well-off you are. Of course, extremely wealthy dudes (like Trump) can go furniture shopping with his targets. Some even (executives) would regularly take a target to an outside mall and walk in to all the jewelry stores there, we're talkin 1000s here though, and if their funds are basically unlimited, it's much cheaper than getting Married, not like Johnny Depp, Paul McCartney, various athletes and all these dumbas5 celebrities do.
 

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BigNeil loves spending loads of cash on women :D If you've got it, why not I guess. Each to their own.

Personally I do the three bar bounce. Kissing by second bar, heavy petting by third. By this point, youll know if she wants a bang, or you might go for round two. Plus you've only spent a couple of hours and maybe a score.
 

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I thought this was going to be about taking her to rent a video lol.
Good one, I caught that after.

But note: as an experiment, the current beauty I posted photos of has been on exactly 3 dates with me, and they were all blockbuster dates. Today she was gushing like never before as we plan the fourth date. Also, it's had an effect on myself. All of our memories together are in exotic locations so it makes the other person seem larger than life. In the Art of Seduction this is the "Poeticize your presence" chapter (youtube has great audiobooks on this where I love listening to Coach Corey Wayne also).
 

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Fvck that.
 

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Don't worry about any of that. Do what you want to do invite her along. Never try to impress a woman, she should be trying to impress you
 
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