"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hot girls, popularity, and status as you get older. How does it work?

ThePlayedList

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Back in high school and even in college, if you wanted to date and sleep with the hottest girls, you needed status. You needed to be on the high school football team or be one of the cool popular kids. Most of the times, if you wanted the 8s and up, this is the route you went down. In college, it helped to rush a fraternity that had a high status on campus and threw the best parties.

After school is out, how does the status and popularity game work?

Outside of being a celebrity, how do you become the popular guy that sleeps around with a ton of hot girls?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WhiskeyTango

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Read the Bible. Do the things that build confidence. Go to the Gym, get in shape, dress nice and F**king APPROACH. It's really that simple. I look at scoring like a batting average. if you are hitting 5 out of 10 women you approach you are a freaking stud. 4 out of 10 and you have good game. The more you practice the better you get.
 

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Back in high school and even in college, if you wanted to date and sleep with the hottest girls, you needed status. You needed to be on the high school football team or be one of the cool popular kids. Most of the times, if you wanted the 8s and up, this is the route you went down. In college, it helped to rush a fraternity that had a high status on campus and threw the best parties.

After school is out, how does the status and popularity game work?

Outside of being a celebrity, how do you become the popular guy that sleeps around with a ton of hot girls?
Some people carry "residual statuses" from HS and College. IE: frat and football and have the basic set of "fans" within their group. To do it on your own you have to establish yourself and build up a social life as it's described here.
 

PantyWhisperer

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Cars, clothes and money can be a signal in the adult world. But it's the kind of bait that can and often does bring you the wrong fish.
 
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