MrWood
Master Don Juan
I should have had you to buy me a beer when I was in Hilversum 2mo ago, scored a 22yo for a date...
It's ok man, hopefully you will get better...
It's ok man, hopefully you will get better...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What is she trying to say??
- Thread starter TheGambino
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Your welkome bro always hit me up in the inbox when your in holland again so we can meet up and hit the clubs.
And would u proceed casual and cold no moves any more with this chick?
MrWood
Master Don Juan
I would focus on yoursef and how you are perceived by others, casual with no moves is good.
Situational pickup is one thing, out right lying and playing b!tches as you've spoke is another..
Hope to get back, it was a work assignment.
Situational pickup is one thing, out right lying and playing b!tches as you've spoke is another..
Hope to get back, it was a work assignment.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
oh dude, you come off hard lol. I was at her home today but I was really chilled out towards her, no moves or anything. We discussed everything though but I only fished for information and didn't give much back.
She mentioned how weird she thought it was that I told her to come over that saturday that was indeed a really bad move, but creepy idk?
Ill guess my chances were way bigger if I did not do that...
She also told me that she didnt have that *click with me (the bf/gf click I guess) but that she can't deny that she loved our experience.
Ill go very casual from now on and move on and learn from that. Ill see if she tries something in the future but I will not force it but play the waiting game.
If she wants more of me in the future it has to come from her side if she doesn't well so long