Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
jesus christ i went on that site and they started talking about ****ing their husbands with strap ons. Im out fellas.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
So bone their husbands with strap one deny them sex and give it up to other men, ones who won't help or pay a single bill? How much worse can you be cuckholded?jesus christ i went on that site and they started talking about ****ing their husbands with strap ons. Im out fellas.
"Mid-sniff". That cracked me up. Maybe he was blowing his nose. Ha.I just went and checked out the link......some girl was complaining about a panty thief. He broke into her house and she caught him mid-sniff holding a pair of her dirty panties.
"it's not gay, totally hetero sex" go **** a guy if you want to get ass raped."Mid-sniff". That cracked me up. Maybe he was blowing his nose. Ha.
The pegging sh!t? WTF? Just WTF?
I wasn't going to read that site at first, but now you've got me sold.And what exactly do you hope to gain from that site? Hell women can't even be straight with men about what they want yet plenty of the veteran DJs here on this site know what a woman wants better than she does.
I took a quick look at that web site, and within 2 minutes I found a thread about a "woman" wanting to know how to stretch her puss to the max and it went on for several pages. The regular women on that site couldn't even tell they were being trolled.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
These are some real motherly women with it. And I know some in real life, it's not many, but there is a certain type of woman who takes PRIDE in loving and treating her man great in order to uplift him...I wasn't going to read that site at first, but now you've got me sold.
I can fully agree with this advice![]()
Probably Red Pill Women on Reddit more so than the site above. Idk for sure. I've met a few RP women, had a descent fwb for a little bit.Is there a female equivalent of the SoSuave forum?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.