"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sho-No-Luv

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Okay, like I've been saying the last two weeks have been strange for me. Strange in some bad ways and strange in some good ways.

Well, today right around the time I was finishing my work out (sprints in intervals) I was walking home and I spotted this female coming from the side street and as I turned the corner she sped up a little. Then right as I got to my front door and stuck the key in she pulled up and ask me to come to her car.

Well, I was actually surprised she was cute about a Hb7 in the face and from what I could see of her body it was tight too, she was thin with a nice shape. :cool:

She then inquires about a house thats for rent on the other side of the street and asked me how the neighborhood hood was. I told her it was a good neighborhood except some of the neighbors will report you if you make too much noise. So then she says that she would: "Love to be my neighbor". I laughed and said "I bet you would". :DSo naturally I got her phone number, but not sure if I'm going to call because I don't like females knowing where I live at. I had a female stalk me before and I had to change my cell # and move to get away from her.

Would you guys call or just forget about it, just curious..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sure. Heck she is probably concerned about that possibility as well.

Meet her at a bar for drinks, and see what happens. Any woman who is going to stalk you is going to find out where you live anyway. ;-D
 

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Sure. Heck she is probably concerned about that possibility as well.

Meet her at a bar for drinks, and see what happens. Any woman who is going to stalk you is going to find out where you live anyway. ;-D
Yea, but if you're talking to more than one which I always do, you don't want to make it too easy on them to be able to locate you when the SHIIT hits the fan like it normally does.

These females nowdays are treacherous and like the op said some will even set you up to be robbed and killed.
 

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You got her number.... Use it. When you bang her it might end up at your place anyway.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I guess I've been lucky in this category because I've never had any woman stalk me or mess with my property. Well atleast that I know of. To be honest you sound a little paranoid.
I've pissed off plenty & the worst that I've had to deal with was hearing them cry as I shut my door.

So when you do mess around with chicks you only go to their place??

And yes call up the hb7, have some drinks & laughs.
 

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She went to the trouble to make up a reason to talk to you. I'd call that high interest. Date her and see if she's crazy. She already knows where you live if she wants to mess with you..... she may be psycho enough to do it just because you DIDN"T date her..... I had 2 women brush up against me trying to initiate last night.... the girl {friend } I was out with saw it too..... I had the massage therapist hit on me today. Doesn't mean they were all hot, they weren't. Doesn't mean they are all crazy either......
 

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I guess I've been lucky in this category because I've never had any woman stalk me or mess with my property. Well atleast that I know of. To be honest you sound a little paranoid.
I've pissed off plenty & the worst that I've had to deal with was hearing them cry as I shut my door.

So when you do mess around with chicks you only go to their place??

And yes call up the hb7, have some drinks & laughs.
Yep, either that or a hotel. Yes, I'm a little paranoid. Ever had a female try and kick your door in after you gave her the boot? :confused::mad:
 
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Yep, either that or a hotel. Yes, I'm a little paranoid. Ever had a female try and kick your door in after you gave her the boot? :confused::mad:
HA! Nope I have an 80lb pitty. Most broads that meet him are a little nervous around him. But I hear what you are saying, I dated a Latina that has some sketchy orbiters/family. After ending that I was a little on edge. Thankfully she didn't go all chola.
 

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HA! Nope I have an 80lb pitty. Most broads that meet him are a little nervous around him. But I hear what you are saying, I dated a Latina that has some sketchy orbiters/family. After ending that I was a little on edge. Thankfully she didn't go all chola.
Bingo Bango! The one that did this was latina too. But it's all good, had a few (three) females approach me out of the blue this week and two gave me their contact info.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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