"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Datboy98

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Saw this post from someone I knew. She's actually the girl who drove me to the red pill. As you can expect, she espouses all AWALT tendencies, enjoys having beta orbiters and she now has the nerve to complain about the lack of courtship these days? It's all a bit hypocritical.
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"Forgive me for I am about to rant...

I don't understand how the **** some boys in this world, yes BOYS, think it's alright to call people out and to slut shame and just act like ****ing idiots all the damn time.

Now, this dumb asssssssss mother****er decided to say that stretch marks on a girl is nasty and we outchea posting nudes but our bodies are basically **** TF is he

I fail to understand why guys aren't aware that that same girl you're saying looks nasty cuz she has stretch marks is the same girl your mother once was/or is. You fail to understand that your mother has stretch marks too and without her having those glorious zebra stripes ascribed to her gorgeous melanin then she wouldn't be the woman she is today. You fail to understand that those are her battle scars. That's what you did to your mother( which she had no control of btw)and you're outchea calling girls fat and saying that we're ugly and nasty?

First of all, grow the **** up. I don't know where you plan on finding a girl who doesn't have stretch marks. Y'all always claiming you want a "thick ass ***** with curves" but guess what.... She has stretch marks... Well HYFR she has stretch marks, and just because of that ati you're going to leave her? the **** are you doing with your life?

What happened to courting like we used to back in the day? This generation is filled **** boys, a term which shouldn't even exist because that's just a ****ing excuse to be a douchebag and break hearts simultaneously (Off topic)

But honestly, y'all better style the **** up. You shouldn't ****ing body shame anyone because you're not ****ing perfect yourself. We come in all shapes and sizes and if that's not good enough for you then that's all good. We got us. I got me.

It shouldn't be about what we look like on the outside. This is how we're going wrong as a ****ing society because we have this perception of "Damn, his man bun is lit, finna hit" TF are you? TF are you????

We're failing terribly guys, we really are. "
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If stretch marks are from birth, then it's the guy's fault.

If stretch marks are from being fat, then it's hers.
 

Billtx49

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If stretch marks are from birth, then it's the guy's fault.

If stretch marks are from being fat, then it's hers.
Many women do not have stretch marks after giving birth. Maybe it's how they treat their own bodies during the 9 mo. process or before that makes the difference? It's her body. If she is idgaf about it, it's her own problem, not the men she interacts with later…
 
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Long long time ago, I was sitting in a break area of a LARGE company I worked for. On TV came a commercial for an "anti-stretch mark" creme, targeted at women. To build up the value of the product, they purposely found a woman with HORRID stretch marks.

They showed her picture on TV and I said, "oh gross" more to myself than anybody else.

The girl sitting the next table over was pregnant and let me have it.

The girl sitting with me (coworker) was pretty BIG. (Tall and fat). She thought it was hilarious.

All the while I'm thinking, wtf? That's the reaction the advertisers WANTED?
 

sharkbeat

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Many women do not have stretch marks after giving birth. Maybe it's how they treat their own bodies during the 9 mo. process or before that makes the difference? It's her body. If she is idgaf about it, it's her own problem, not the men she interacts with later…
Women from way back when had already developed ways and methods to at least minimize stretch marks and/or sagging skins after giving birth. Honestly, I think it's their God-given rights to be giving birth and I wholefully respect that. My opinion on the matter is that stretch marks is definitely something I wouldn't even make a comment on publicly.

It's sacred, admirable, and respectable for a woman to give birth. Getting rare nowadays with all these abortions and slutting around. She deserves all kinds of excuses after giving birth. If she puts extra efforts to get rid of her post-birth body, like Maria Kang, then she needs even bigger applause. That's the attitude that we should strive for as a society.

But no need to publicly shame any woman for not putting efforts after birth. Having a couple of babies around I'm pretty sure would be devastating to your personal life too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think shaming is a waste of time, it has never brought anything good. Some men do shame women for their bodies or things about their bodies, such men achieve nothing apart from being perceived as a plague. Do not think I'm siding with this woman, I certainly do not. She's shaming men from shaming women, it's no better.

There's a simpler way without all the hassle of trying to bear the responsibility for everyone else, simply do not choose them. A man need not explain to the fvcking world why he doesn't prefer a woman for whatever reason. It's a lot wiser to simply walk away, it's not the mans problem. I don't care if some women want to eat themselves fat until they burst, I just simply don't date them. I don't walk around making it into a massive drama, I just walk away and that's the end of it. No fighting for sh!t, defending my points and being attacked from all angles.

This woman should have saved us the sh!t she posted and rather just not care about the men she does not like. Instead she creates a huge drama by announcing it to everyone. Do not think "typical of women", because some men are guilty of exactly the same. They can be found on this forum among other places throughout society. It isn't gender based, it's just people wasting their time b!tching and whining.
 

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Now, this dumb asssssssss mother****er decided to say that stretch marks on a girl is nasty and we outchea posting nudes but our bodies are basically **** TF is he

I fail to understand why guys aren't aware that that same girl you're saying looks nasty cuz she has stretch marks is the same girl your mother once was/or is. You fail to understand that your mother has stretch marks too
I don't know if my mother had stretch marks or not, but I do know she wasn't posting nude selfies on social media for general consumption.
 

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I dated a girl with a child once. No stretch marks at all. She was pretty small in frame though.

I don't find obscene stretch marks attractive. I don't find overweight women attractive. I don't find single moms attractive because most of the time it shows poor judgment. You can have or be all of these things and that's fine, but if I don't find something attractive, I can't rewire my brain to tell itself otherwise. Attraction is not a choice.
 

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First of all, women are the biggest "body shamers" especially against other women.

Second, women despise dating someone shorter than them. They even make fun of short men.

Finally, they dislike dating men younger than them until they start hitting the wall. Then they get desperate and are willing to date a guy 20 years younger than them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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