Never Chase. Ever.

[Ronaldo7]

Men don't need to chase. I've now interiorized this within.

Looks do play a major role, but one needs the panache to pull it off. The mercurial ability to essentially have women orbit you. A certain charismatic trait to lull them into a continuous, unwavering desire for YOU.

Going NC on them is essential. Orbiters will keep talking endlessly and will get shut down. It is imperious to have so many options you end up forgetting about the one who you went NC on.

Assert your superiority and dominance over her immediately after you demonstrate your intent. Do it indirectly and with subtle statements, but make sure she understand you are the gift. You are THE gift. You are HER God.

Chasing is worn out. Demonstrating intent is not chasing. You simply state your intentions, lay the facts and let her move her piece. They WILL move their piece. Project yourself as a unique individual. Someone as rare as painite. She'll remember you. She will understand how fortunate she is to have met YOU.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

Interesting to read this now.

I'm currently sitting in a youth hostel in Washington D.C. It's 4 am and there's a beta male chasing an HB6 15years his senior at a table nearby.

He's drunk and they've been talking some spiritual nonsense for hours, I couldn't decipher a word of the new age babble were spewing. He got some basic kino in and tried to get her to go for a walk. He asked over 20+ times in many ways and just couldn't take the hint. It just got really pathetic after a while.

I think you're right - cultivating the aura where women think they're coming to you is probably the best recipe for success. Unless you have the world's thickest skin and can manage the harshest of rejections with ease.

 

[Bingo-Player]

men don't need to chase no

but unfortunately when you have a beautiful young woman who knows how to dress flatteringly and is very physically appealing to men, it is very difficult to maintain self control it takes a lot of self discipline and years of experience to do this

mental strength is key when dealing with women

 

[RangerMIke]

Be the best you can be, act like a man, and you will have women interested in you. You do not need to chase a woman. But you should have a realistic expectation of what you can get. 9s and 10s will not chase you if you are a 7 or 8.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

I can remember when I was a teenager I didn't chase at all. Sure other guys chased and they got the chick they were after, I felt bad about it. But not being the best at socializing then was awkward for me but I remember thinking why in the world would I chase a girl like that and devalue my self-worth? Of course at the time I didn't really understand 'alpha' ways in the manner we discuss today so I had no idea of how to proceed. I just felt that the best I could do was embellish my own qualities a little that made me stand out, trying to be a funny, being more sociable and fitting in the right crowd of people, etc. I didn't get laid enough to my own satisfaction, no. I think a major problem with that however was my inability to escalate properly because I still managed to have girls give me attention without chasing them.

 

[Vivacity]

Me. Never chased. Never begged. Women or otherwise.

men don't need to chase no

but unfortunately when you have a beautiful young woman who knows how to dress flatteringly and is very physically appealing to men, it is very difficult to maintain self control it takes a lot of self discipline and years of experience to do this

mental strength is key when dealing with women

Follow the letter of the law, for instance, my rule is 2-Strike rule, and you are good. I take 2 strikes and stop pursuing women. After I stopped pursuing women after 2 strikes, quiet a few women came back running to me and started pursuing me, I rejected those women and made them feel worthless.

Experience and abundance mentality is the key. If you had put 9s and 10s on the back burner 2 or 3 times in the past, you care less about them in your future tries as well. It's like, "yeah, she's pretty, but who will put up with her $#!77Y personality. No thanks."

Be the best you can be, act like a man, and you will have women interested in you. You do not need to chase a woman. But you should have a realistic expectation of what you can get. 9s and 10s will not chase you if you are a 7 or 8.

I have seen 9s and 10s chasing 7s and 8s, when 9s and 10s (women) have less education, are less smarter, and make about 25k a year, while 7s and 8s (men) have relatively better education, are smarter, and easily make twice, thrice or four times a year than 9s and 10s.

According to me, 7s and 8s, who are a combination of beauty and brains and have their $#!7 together, are the catch. These are relationship and marriage material.

 

[wifehunter]

It's more fun when they chase you anyway. They do silly things! Like memorize your time tables, and pretend like they are not stalking you. Quite entertaining, to say the least. Mine bolts, when I catch her stalking me. She gets that "deer in headlights" look.
Quite adorable, really!

 

[Ronaldo7]

It's funny. It doesn't matter their age. A milf still demonstrates attitudes and patterns of a younger woman.

She wants to be chased, but still comes back when NC is enabled.

Be the best you can be, act like a man, and you will have women interested in you. You do not need to chase a woman. But you should have a realistic expectation of what you can get. 9s and 10s will not chase you if you are a 7 or 8.

Correct. That's why i believe looks play a major role in all of this.