PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Belmont harbor?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Field Report from the Chi
- Thread starter Dgwizdal
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
Diversey brah
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
never leave your phone *anywhere* its a receipt for trouble ......
other than that nice to read
PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Nice use to frequent that area, I'm Northwest more. Sometimes hit up lakeshore for a bike ride, I love Chicago it the winters I always say I want to move then when summer hits I remember why I love it so much
Solomon
Master Don Juan
*Grabs Popcorn takes a seat*
I love going to Chicago got variety of chicks and way more options than most places, Good luck to you mate will be following your report closely
I love going to Chicago got variety of chicks and way more options than most places, Good luck to you mate will be following your report closely
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
Nothing beats summertime in the CHI.