"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1/3rd of Americans age 18-34 live with parents

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2016...r-living-arrangements-for-18-to-34-year-olds/

I think this stat is largely about the sad state of the US job market, especially for young people. The last time things were similar was 1940, the end of the Great Depression and start of World War II.
I've been commenting on this....but folks on this site just say I'm just "being negative" and "whining" about the stats/data. The reality is that we are in the WORSE JOB MARKET in decades, at least the worse in the last 40 years.
 

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I've been commenting on this....but folks on this site just say I'm just "being negative" and "whining" about the stats/data. The reality is that we are in the WORSE JOB MARKET in decades, at least the worse in the last 40 years.
Plenty of jobs out there if you are willing to endure the bull****. Human Resources is used as an Affirmative Action dumping ground for mainly spoiled white women, so these ****s are the gate keepers to jobs now. It's really hard to get a job when their "ideal candidate" is no different than the men they choose or have been waiting for since college.
 

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In addition, a lot of people(cough cough millennials) feel extremely entitled and will only take a specific job at a specific location only. You won't see them leave their hometown or the nearest big city to their hometown at all. For example, my friend said that he's only going to apply in Nashville or the Northeast. He doesn't have any internship experience and his gpa is bad lol.
 

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I'd recommend staying out of Macedonia. Maybe head to the great white north. (eh).

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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