If i'm repulsive/hideous will this help?

[Clueless2k16]

i know you guys have seen my pics and agreed with me that i look like shrek/gollum and my question is do i still have a change being the deformed / repulsive **** i am?

Should i give up on women altogether because i dont stand a chance in a world where looks are everything.?

Options:

--> im not really short, im 1.76 m tall but maybe i could use shoe lifts?

--> getting buff/muscular by going to gym + supplementation or even roids (me being 40 i dont know if i can get the results i want as the body grows muscle slowly at this age)

--> taking care of my skin, i dont have acne or anything, but i think good skin is also important and can make a difference

--> improve my Testosterone levels i dont know if gym alone can do that. What else gives high T levels? High Testosterone would also be helpful to grow a thicker beard, i've had some women telling me on reddit/facebook that my beard doesnt look good although i trim it and style it (even here some users said the same). Also read that mynoxidyl applied in the face helps with the beardless patches and thickens the beard as well.

--> i'm bald and i shave my head, i dont have at the moment the money to go for a full hair transplant, plus i dont know if at my norwood stage would be effective. should i wear a wig/hair system?

--> tanning beds for a quick tan as i have pale skin and dark circles under the eyes. it could give me a boost in confidence and also make me look healthier?

--> last but not least wardrobe. What would be the right clothes for an non executive 40 year old guy.? Something that would make me look clean, confortable and confident. Nothing too much formal tought.

I was thinking on something along these lines:

https://cdna.lystit.com/200/250/n/p...er-product-1-26251731-2-668647846-normal.jpeg

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-elj6-8Pll.../Y1Z2qKrtI5g/s1600/0023ae5d932f0baea22d29.jpg

http://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0628/9149/products/NEMT01-BLACK-1_grande.jpg?v=1408993541

http://images.asos-media.com/inv/media/6/2/8/1/831826/black/image1xxl.jpg

i still think the levis black jeans are very versatile and go well with a lot of clothes

Thing is i'm also outta shape and these wouldnt look good on me and i dont know if its worth the investment

Anyway i dont know if these are good choices of wardrobe. I'm not the bright colors kinda of guy, i prefer neutral colors like black, grey, white, blue and thats basically what i like.

Shoes are the most difficult and very important, as i've seen women looking at men's shoes lots of times.

 

[Tictac]

i know you guys have seen my pics and agreed with me that i look like shrek/gollum and my question is do i still have a change being the deformed / repulsive **** i am?

I don't think one response in your other thread agreed with your statement.

 

[parkthebus]

Face - You look above average.

Height - I'm 5'5 which is about the minimum a man can be before his height becomes a major hindrance in attracting women. As long as she's not taller than you its OK. The only reason women aren't attracted to shorter men is because of others opinions. But no one would ever think anything about me being with a girl my height so they're cool with it. You're 5'7 which is more than tall enough to pull the majority of women.

Testosterone - If you lift weights right (make sure your legs get a super workout) your T should be at a decent enough level. It doesn't decline that much by the age of 30.

Hair - Doesn't matter if your bald, plenty of people shave their head to look good. You don't have a feminine face so it suits you just fine. I wouldn't even think about it if I were you. Your beard is fine. It would be good if it was a bit thicker but you have plenty to work with. Just don't let it get too long or it will look patchy.

Clothes - Those clothes are too plain. You don't need to wear bright colours, just something that isn't bland and formal looking. As an example, I have pair of dark green trousers that I wear with a white shirt and grey sports blazer. The trousers are an unusual colour which makes them stand out but they're dark so it's subtle at the same time and still looks smart. The easiest combination with clothes is, casual trousers/smart chinos with a shirt (white is fine if you're wondering) and a casual blazer. It's pretty basic but with a bit of colour contrast it works well. Examples, brown/green, red/navy. There's so much info online about which colours go, it's pretty easy to match them once you've got the foundation knowledge.

Shoes - It looks, based on your links, like you are going to go with the trouser, shirt, blazer combo. If so, you can buy shoes in any colour but black. If you're not sure what colours match, good it and look at pictures online. Brown is the easiest to work with. You'll want to buy brogues because they're smart but the patterns make them casual. I wear these shoes and get a lot of compliments on them, no ones ever knocked them. Women notice them a lot and look at them as they're passing.

Tanning - Is for women.