"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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got the number, arranged the date - advice from here!

bobafatt

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Met this beautiful chick the other weekend got her number, she appeared to show intrest playing with her hair and laughing. Messaged her a day later and got into a good conversation but kept it brief.

I have been busy with work and been on a few other dates - she has initated contact every time and wants to keep the conversation going. I have arranged a date now for next tuesday due to work and other commitments.

My question is from here on then if she does contact how do i keep it brief without coming across like im not interested?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MrWood

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next Tuesday, after the weekend?
beautiful chick you say?

something like..
"im going home after xyz and was going to eat, we could cook dinner together and watch a bad movie, but you would need to behave... ok?, we got a date Tuesday"
 

Yewki

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My question is from here on then if she does contact how do i keep it brief without coming across like im not interested?
Respond with interest in what she's saying just invest less and less in the conversation as it goes on. Think of it like an echo chamber. If she comes at you with interest, echo it back. But if she continues, echo it back quieter. Delay your response, be brief. The common mistake by guys is to reciprocate every time she responds... no you want her to believe you're concerned with other things. That she's not a high priority.
 
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