"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Apple Stole My Music. No, Seriously.

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Here's a good blog article about the Apple Music service. When you subscribe, it will delete all of your music files that you didn't buy from Apple.

As governments fall apart from economic collapse, George Orwell's vision will remain true, except that over-reaching power will be in corporate hands, instead of government.

https://blog.vellumatlanta.com/2016/05/04/apple-stole-my-music-no-seriously/

For about ten years, I’ve been warning people, “hang onto your media. One day, you won’t buy a movie. You’ll buy the right to watch a movie, and that movie will be served to you. If the companies serving the movie don’t want you to see it, or they want to change something, they will have the power to do so. They can alter history, and they can make you keep paying for things that you formerly could have bought. Information will be a utility rather than a possession. Even information that you yourself have created will require unending, recurring payments just to access.”

When giving the above warning, however, even in my most Orwellian paranoia I never could have dreamed that the content holders, like Apple, would also reach into your computer and take away what you already owned. If Taxi Driver is on Netflix, Netflix doesn’t come to your house and steal your Taxi Driver DVD. But that’s where we’re headed. When it comes to music, Apple is already there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Disney already has made efforts to alter their history, most notably with their edits to the movie Fantasia. Religions erase embarrassing doctrines and bible-based predictions from their archives and pretend that their followers have faulty memories or interpretations.

There are a number of things I don't subscribe to because it leaves me without control. Apple is one of them. Cable TV package subscriptions are another. If I pay money for something, I want the ability to modify it.
 

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Disney already has made efforts to alter their history, most notably with their edits to the movie Fantasia. Religions erase embarrassing doctrines and bible-based predictions from their archives and pretend that their followers have faulty memories or interpretations.

There are a number of things I don't subscribe to because it leaves me without control. Apple is one of them. Cable TV package subscriptions are another. If I pay money for something, I want the ability to modify it.
Hell, the first Star Wars movie (episode 4) was edited years ago.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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On the flip side, if your iPhone is Jailbroken then you can download an app that doesn't delete your music and also gives you a free subscription.

You can watch shows online for free and even torrent whole seasons at once rather than paying for a subscription.

There is always a counter to something that has power and that is one of them.
 
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