Need help gaming a small town older girl

[Dhoulmagus]

Girl is 27 with a job and appears to be independent and such. She claims to go to church every Sunday, rarely drink, only have sex in relationships, and so on. The catch is that I'm used to flakey college girls and it has sort created some conflict lol. For example, I was late to her house on Thursday and she told me that's her biggest pet peeve. I didn't want to tell her I didn't think she was serious because I'm used to 19-year-olds, so I just shrugged it off lol. We watched a movie, cuddled, and she kissed me at the end of the hangout. Next day, I slightly suggested we make plans on Saturday and when I brought it up Saturday afternoon she said she didn't think I was being serious/too vague and she made plans to visit her parents. I do admit that I was vague about it though. In addition, she thinks I talk down on her and not direct at all. Last, she said she's not used to somebody wanting to hang around all the time because she's independent lol. I pretty decided to give her some space by not contacting her today, but would that **** her off even more? Is this salvageable or should I just accept being a level 100 MGTOW in this small town. I'm seriously thinking about just moving lol.

 

[dustmuffin]

Be direct and set up a date dont be vague. Why would you want to hang out all of the time? Just ask her out and escalate. You should be giving her space because as a man you have stuff to do and dont have time to kiss her a ss all of the time.

 

[old_skoolr]

So because your getting clingy in her eyes you wanna go level 100 MGTOW?

So because of your lack of game you wanna go level 100 MGTOW?

To achieve what exactly, more posts here on how women are terrible people?

Going MGTOW isnt gonna achieve anything. It's probably the biggest b1tch move you could do right now.

But wateva tickles your pickle man.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Be direct and set up a date dont be vague. Why would you want to hang out all of the time? Just ask her out and escalate. You should be giving her space because as a man you have stuff to do and dont have time to kiss her a ss all of the time.

I didn't think I was being that clingy. Just trying to schedule a meetup. I probably should have waited a few days though.

 

[dustmuffin]

I didn't think I was being that clingy. Just trying to schedule a meetup. I probably should have waited a few days though.

yes thats a good idea

 

[Dhoulmagus]

So because your getting clingy in her eyes you wanna go level 100 MGTOW?

So because of your lack of game you wanna go level 100 MGTOW?

To achieve what exactly, more posts here on how women are terrible people?

Going MGTOW isnt gonna achieve anything. It's probably the biggest b1tch move you could do right now.

But wateva tickles your pickle man.

There's no other option for me

 

[Dhoulmagus]

yes thats a good idea

Well, what do I do now besides have a life?

 

[BeExcellent]

Treat dating her like a business meet up for now.

Contact her, make an appointment including date/time/activity, confirm day of, show up on time, then take her out and escalate.

Dating a woman who is responsible in her own life is worlds different from dating flaky teenagers or college girls.

You wouldn't be vague or show up late for a work deal because it is a high priority. Therefore if you want better results treat her like you value her time.

The teenagers & college girls don't yet understand how valuable time is, not yours, not their own.

So yes your approach needs to be more mature with this one if you want to salvage.