"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do girls with a high valued man in their life screw around on tinder

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Like an alpha bf or some guy screwing her brains out that hasn't committed yet because I was sexting this Tinder girl last night and woke up to her snap story at a bar lol. Some guy was in her snaps and I noticed he is in some of her pictures on fb. I don't care either way because he looks fat and I'm better looking than him lol. If he looked liked Thor or some Cam Newton then there would be an issue haha. I Was planning on just asking her to a restaurant and going to for the kill after that, but might go to a restraunt/bar now haha. I know my ex deleted Tinder once she figured out how high-value I was to her. I never had to confront her about it lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Like an alpha bf or some guy screwing her brains out that hasn't committed yet because I was sexting this Tinder girl last night and woke up to her snap story at a bar lol. Some guy was in her snaps and I noticed he is in some of her pictures on fb. I don't care either way because he looks fat and I'm better looking than him lol. If he looked liked Thor or some Cam Newton then there would be an issue haha. I Was planning on just asking her to a restaurant and going to for the kill after that, but might go to a restraunt/bar now haha. I know my ex deleted Tinder once she figured out how high-value I was to her. I never had to confront her about it lol.
What do you care what's in or not in her tinder photos? Unless you can see what looks like a possessive man that's also a hit man, who gives a sh*t?
 

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And tell you to ask him, but you said this,

I Was planning on just asking her to a restaurant
So my questions now are,

1) Why are you buying a stranger a meal?

2) How much do you plan on spending for this meal?

3) How does taking her to a restaurant benefit you?


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Ole Rex was going to post a picture of

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And tell you to ask him, but you said this,



So my questions now are,

1) Why are you buying a stranger a meal?

2) How much do you plan on spending for this meal?

3) How does taking her to a restaurant benefit you?


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Didn't say I was.

Idk

Beats saying can I come to your apt to have sex?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Value is subjective, so yes.

I wish everybody'd stop going on about that "value" thing.
You don't want to consciously contemplate whether someone disrespected you, you'll come to the conclusion that you are "low value" and that will put your brain through all sorts of problems. The world is crazy... better keep on going. It's not a constructive train of thought.
 

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Didn't say I was.

Idk

Beats saying can I come to your apt to have sex?
Actually, you can say that. Sh*t works and you should have confidence in your game.
 

zekko

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A slvt is a slvt, and a wh0re will wh0re.
 

Alvafe

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Value is subjective, so yes.

I wish everybody'd stop going on about that "value" thing.
You don't want to consciously contemplate whether someone disrespected you, you'll come to the conclusion that you are "low value" and that will put your brain through all sorts of problems. The world is crazy... better keep on going. It's not a constructive train of thought.
you don't comtemplate you know they are, the value you put for yourself is the value you can ask from her, if you value yourself low you won't care, if you value yourself high, any **** she do will count agaisnt her and you will ahve another on the line
 
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