You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you eliminate welfare and food stamps and the choice is between doing farm work and starving, you bet your ass they will. It always amazes me that there are nearly 50 million Americans on food stamps and yet there are tens of millions of jobs done by illegals because Americans apparently won't do them. This is a hugely inefficient system.But then who is going to clean Trump's hotel rooms? I've seen one or two non-brown hotel maids, but not very many.
And if you think Americans of any color are going to do farm work like I do, whether you pay them $15/hr or not, good luck with that. The I-phone generation is not into sweating in the hot sun.
The same argument was used against ending slavery. Back then, many people were arguing that the U.S. economy would collapse if slavery was eliminated. That didn't happen. Moral considerations aside, slavery was a hugely inefficient production system and the end of slavery was actually a great boon for the U.S. economy. After slavery was abolished, millions of European farmers moved to the U.S. and agricultural production increased threefold.The world isn't going to end if we cleanup this mess with the invaders by sending them back home.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Than arrest Donald Trump and every Ranch owner of texas and South USA.it makes a diff if it's illegals. We have to make it a FELONY to be here illegally. we have to LOCK UP those convicted of hiring illegals. we have to build a double fence, with rifle towers every 1/4 mile. We have to put up a reward, $200 each for snitching out illegals to the cops.
All it takes to have plenty of White folks working such jobs is pay them $20 an hour, and $15 an hour will suffice in a lot of areas, or $10 a hour and room and board.
Slavery was replaced with share cropping which kept the tenant farmer in perpetual debt with the landlord. Black people didn't have freedom of movement and they needed a white man's permission to change jobs. Also, there was the prison convict labor system which built the infrastructure of the South. Slavery officially ended with the passage of the 13th Amendment, but in reality slavery ended with the U.S. entry into WW II, and only then, because the government didn't want the Italians, Nazis, and the Japanese using it as a propaganda tool.The same argument was used against ending slavery. Back then, many people were arguing that the U.S. economy would collapse if slavery was eliminated. That didn't happen. Moral considerations aside, slavery was a hugely inefficient production system and the end of slavery was actually a great boon for the U.S. economy. After slavery was abolished, millions of European farmers moved to the U.S. and agricultural production increased threefold.
You want to turn your country into Mexico, bruh? Welfare keeps you safe and helps you to maintain a decent standard of living.You bet it will so long as you pull welfare from the able bodied.
People will work if given the opportunity. You're acting as if people are just turning down jobs to sit at home to watch MauryPeople
will work when they are hungry enough. People will work when the handouts stop. Until then we are reinforcing the wrong behavior. Drastically reduce wasteful welfare spending. Most people on welfare can do something to earn a living and contribute to society.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
We're not becoming Mexico. Two of the reasons why is the social safety net we have here and corruption isn't tolerated.1. We already ARE becoming Mexico because of the illegals.
This is a non sequitur. Much, much, more money is f*cked off in defense spending. I'm all for a strong as and modern military, but let's clean up wasteful spending here and in pork barrel spending.Have you seen the number of people on "disability"? Yes this $hit needs to get cleaned up.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This is not true. It works the opposite. Guaranteeing anything makes people lazy. Exhibit A = welfare. Not to mention the bullsh*t bill of goods that millenials have been sold about college. Bottom line, college isn't for everybody, and they are finding that out the hard way.Also, as I said before, people need to be guaranteed opportunities. You want people to work, but there is needs to be a mechanism in place guaranteeing jobs. People with people fresh out of college have a hard enough time landing jobs.
I agree about disability. I think the poster mis-spoke. Welfare must be cleaned up, but the able bodied folks should not be allowed to get it permanently.What you're saying is that people that have been diagnoised with physical or mental disability (and who have been out of the workforce for years,) will suddenly have to look for work, and we all know how employers feel about gaps in your work history.
For the same reason Reagan and Nixon didn't go to the pen.if corruption ISNT tolerated, why are lerner, holder, obama and both clintons not in PRISON? We've got them dead to rights on having committed MANY felonies.
This is textbook liberal horsesh*t. Cute to say in front of your prognut friends but utter horsesh*it.I remember working in the farms and vineyard.... ****ing hardest job I ever did.... people quitted on a daily.... the only people staying more than 1-2 weeks were mexicans coming to pay for their university....
By law, the farm/vineyard owners were allowed to pay them less than us.
Will kicking illegals work ? It might
But you have to find them a replacement.... so far the agricultural and hotel business prefers illegal... for the salary and the work efficiency
Will the ''white guy or typical american'' want that job.... ? So far its usually a No
Robots might do the trick.
PS: I am all against illegal immigrants... but the guys pushing for a wall... are the one hiring illegal immigrants for their personal property
Uh huh...guaranteed health care in single payer systems makes people sooo lazy, so lazy that they actually get off their asses and go see doctors because they don't have to worry about the corporate inefficiencies of the private American healthcare sector. In case no one told you the plethora of social insurance programs aren't guaranteed. I'm a single dude with no kids and a decent job so I likely qualify for assistance if something were to happen to the position and I "fell on hard times". But guess what, if I was just a single dude living at home with no kids and never had a single job in my life, I most likely wouldn't qualify for anything. Dude, the last time a true welfare queen existed was under the Reagan administration thereafter they were quickly "abolished" and the SSI systems were amended with qualifications so people didn't just live off of welfare indefinitely. Oh, that's right, another thing you probably weren't aware of, receiving welfare assistance benefits isn't life-long, you can only receive benefits for so many years before you have to appeal for an extension and then once the extension is up you no longer qualify. Why don't you actually educate yourself about government assistance instead of spewing complete garbage?This is not true. It works the opposite. Guaranteeing anything makes people lazy. Exhibit A = welfare. Not to mention the bullsh*t bill of goods that millenials have been sold about college. Bottom line, college isn't for everybody, and they are finding that out the hard way.
The only real incentive to do anything is fear of failure and the excitement of achievement. Any type of guarantees take away both, save for the few supermotivated.
What is it with folks like you and wanting something for nothing? Have you not figured out that without work, there is no happiness?
I agree about disability. I think the poster mis-spoke. Welfare must be cleaned up, but the able bodied folks should not be allowed to get it permanently.
Just to further this point, I would say that a government has a responsibility to its people in helping them get off of welfare. But the reality is yes, the government is not serious, because the government is full of individuals who bend to private interests and make compromises instead of carrying out their duties with the interests of all of its citizens.Besides, the government (on any level) isn't serious about getting people off of welfare. If it was, the government would have better job training programs and educational opportunities. The government would give added consideration to somebody on welfare and give tax incentatives to companies who hired welfare recipients.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.