FarCryExperience
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How do you deal with someone who likes to play texting games. For example, sending an emoji after you send them a complete sentence or does 'k' you... alot.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dealing with texters
- Thread starter FarCryExperience
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Tictac
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For every two you get, maybe send one back.
Electronic devices are for arranging dates at a time and place certain.
EyeBRollin
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Simple - don't play texting games.
You shouldn't be engaging in exchanges longer than 3-5 messages. These exchanges should be to iron out logistics for the next date. Do it in one message.
All you are doing is texting your chick out of liking you. Don't text for any other reason but to set-up dates. You're too busy for that ****.
Dhoulmagus
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