"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl cheated on BF with me

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Pretty interested in her, but now she won't stop sobbing. **** move? Yes, but I won't apologize for my testosterone.

What can I tell her to reassure her that it's not a big deal.

I really don't think it is because of 2 reasons:

They've only been dating for 2 months and she's been having a crush on me for a month. Second reason is because she says she already "loves" him, meanwhile she said he hasn't said or shown the same affection back.

Finally hooked up and we ****ed, but now she can't forgive herself, while I lie here in her bed, need help bros!

I truly want to be with her but I'm pretty sure she doesn't want to hear that right now. What else can I say?

I literately got into her pants by saying that she's my girl now and I will confront her BF and tell him. Following through that, maybe will fix the problem?

Again 2 months and she fell in love, BS right?...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FOH.
 

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Dude who cares. If it wasn't with you, it would have been with someone else.

Tell her bf he needs to wise up and not make a slut his gf.

Don't feel guilty....asking as u aren't there actively chasing other dudes girls you are straight.

It's her fault and his fault for getting serious with her.

Hell....anything that's not a marriage, though, is a joke.......what percent of couples stay together forever??????

You have zero to feel guilty about...just hit it and quit.

I banged a wife the other night...some bimbo I met in the bar....don't stress it....it happens.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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