I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Unless robots take those jobsAgree with man posting up above me... Architects get paid jack, there are no jobs out there for it either. Do anything else and you will be better off. I recommend you go to a trade school for something like becoming an electrician, plumber, or being an HVAC repair man. Blue collar jobs that are never going to go away. More hands on stuff for that training too, less about tests.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Who said you have to provide for some broad?Yep,architecture.Main reason is I do a course with maths in it,and I fukin hate maths.Combine that with a sense of nihilism I feel knowing all this is to provide for some broad in future,it ****ing sucks.
But I'll try something better,not sure this manual jobs will do though.Im not in US,so I can't afford living like a hippie.I'll still need a 'good' job,you know.
Is this your passion and what you really want to do in life? Also, why are you failing exams, where you studying like you were suppose to?Chased out of arch -school for failing one too many exams.
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