Twoitis

[wifehunter]

Two of my plates come off as shyish introverts. It's super hard to read interest levels at times! I can't help but find them facinating! They're probably the biggest challenge I've faced since I started applying DJ skills.

So, my question is... How do you account for different personality types? Do you bother with introvert types, or do you pass on them, and stick to the obvious bubbly outgoing types?

Would also like to hear some strategy on dealing with introvert types. Can't help but think introverts may be immune to normal game/strategies. But, I'm still not sure! There's not a lot of info concerning personality types.

 

[wifehunter]

I have lots of experience. First off, my sister is introverted (but a very pretty and intelligent girl, I mean brilliant). So I learned how to crack that protective shell.

The most important thing is to first figure out and understand her humor. Most of these girls are looking for guys they can relate to and/or open them up. If you cannot open her up with humor, it makes things MUCH more difficult.

Another technique is to get her adrenaline pumping. Most of the shy girls will hesitate to do something adventurous, but force them out of their comfort zone and watch her blossom like a flower in front of your eyes. She will feel alive with you, and therefore feel as if you're "the one" or "different". This applies more so to introverts than extroverts, but it's a good tactic either way.

You need to interest her. You see, most girls love to talk and you apply the 30/70 rule, and that's great. But here, you will have to talk more and that's okay. Stay away from excessive teasing though, as introverts can be more self-conscious. This isn't to say cut off teasing, but really emphasize the sarcasm and humor part.

Eye contact. This is huge. Never break it before her, because I promise these girls will be the first to look away.

The above was the initial meeting stages. After you've been out with her a few times and fvcked her, treat them like any other woman.

EYE contact BOOM... Thanks for confirming most of my observations!!! Yes, humor has always been key... If I a get serious tone, they shut down.

Being an introvert myself, I seem to like most of the same things!

I like the adventurous idea, thanks!!!

 

[logicallefty]

@KingofPuss nailed it with the humor and pushing a woman out of her comfort zone. I've taken some women on some wild and crazy adventures and had them say "that was so exciting it made me wet!" There is a lot of stuff you can do in the backwoods that you can't do in the city..

Learning humor and matching your own humor with a woman's (or anyone's) is an interesting topic and one I love. And its not always easy. Some people just have total opposite humor. For example, I know people who think that someone tripping and falling down is funny. Or dropping something is funny.. I see zero humor in people tripping and falling or dropping something to the ground. NONE. On the other hand, if someone farts I laugh so hard I about loose my breath! But many people think that laughing at a fart is the most childish and immature thing ever.. You have to really throw people different hooks of humor and see where they bite. You can often find common ground even if your humor is not exactly alike. On the other hand, they may just be people who are sticks in the mud and have no humor for anything. If I figure a woman out to be like that, I next her...

 

[wifehunter]

sticks in the mud

Those are the best kind! LOL!!!