"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Feels so good to cut loose from a BPD

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I just managed to completely get my BPD ex out of my life. Feels great to be free again and not have her crazy ass to worry about.

Long story short we both agreed on a mutual mature breakup. Well I packed up all her **** from my house neatly and helped her load everything into her car. As soon as we got everything loaded up, she went on a 10 minute tirade calling me every name in the book. I happened to set my iPhone on record before she started just as a CYA for proof she's an absolute nutcase.

Then, I immediately blocked her FB and phone number but not before she sent me like 10 texts in a row. Next, she called up one of our mutual friends who is a guy and was saying how much of a POS I am and how I just wanted to start drama. He just tells her "Bro's before Hoe's" and hangs up. lol

So in conclusion, if you suspect a girl is BPD get the **** out quick.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Unfortunately some women are very good at concealing it and the guy is blindsided when it rears it's ugly head 6 months into the relationship lol.
 
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Haha, got a good buddy on board! Enjoy your peace of mind and cherish life !
 
Paintballguy

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Armourhead said:
Bro's before hoes. Your bud just slam dunked that for you.
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It was great. I actually met this dude through my ex because he was dating one of her friends. She's like "Don't go try and be buddy buddy with John because I've known him longer." I was like "well we are hanging out this weekend so good luck with that." lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dear Paintball,
Yeah,know that feeling....great to see their home in your rear vision Huh?
 
Glumix

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Paintballguy said:
Bro's before Hoe's
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You are pretty lucky. My bro's don't get anything about my ex-BPD, they still think she was pretty nice and they don't get anything about women and relationship. They have been either single or married for the last 2 years. Can't speak about the Red Pill otherwise I get lynched.
 
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Be careful of the recycle.

Since you ended it on top she'll have a obsessive need to try and trick you back in so she can end it on top
 
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