DEAR ABBY

[YawataNoKami]

http://news.yahoo.com/husband-uncovers-wifes-affair-unsure-cope-050907156.html


DEAR ABBY: Thirty years ago when I was an Army officer, my wife "went crazy." She had an affair and wound up getting pregnant. When I got out of the Army, she saw the man one time more before we moved and got pregnant again! We had a child together later.


When I found out my eldest son didn't have the correct blood type, I confronted her and she admitted it. I then had all my children tested and realized only the last one is mine. I love the other two as well as my son, and I would not destroy his or the other boys' lives.

My wife and I had counseling and it helped some. The problem is, I feel like my life has been destroyed and I don't know what to do. -- COUNSELING HELPED ... BUT.


Ahhhhhhhhhhh, the joys of marriage.

 

[logicallefty]

There is no end to the low levels of deception a woman will go to, and this one is down there pretty far. The other element to this is how the woman actually thought she was smart enough not to get caught on this, and that the husband was too dumb and naive to ever figure out that the kids were not his.

It's the same exact concept my infamous globe trotting bigamist wh0re ex did to me. Married me knowing she had two other legal husbands, but thought she was smart enough to get away with it and that I was too dumb to ever catch her. buzzzzzzzzz! wrong!

 

[Bible_Belt]

But from a strictly biological perspective, didn't the woman do the right thing by getting the man who was likely a better provider to raise her children? Morally, she's a lying wh0re, but biologically she was just being a good mother.

 

[logicallefty]

But from a strictly biological perspective, didn't the woman do the right thing by getting the man who was likely a better provider to raise her children? Morally, she's a lying wh0re, but biologically she was just being a good mother.

I'm not sure about that one. Is there any other animal on Earth where the female mates with one male, has offspring, and then seeks out another/better male to be the father figure of said offspring? I don't think this is how nature intended, but I'm not science/nature expert so I could be wrong..

 

[Bible_Belt]

Officer's wives have had a reputation for infidelity for a long time. They tend to be attractive and get left at home a lot, often on a base full of horny young guys. Officers are encouraged to have a family unit that looks like a good example. So scandals get covered up for the sake of careers.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Where is the kid from the other thread who wanted to join the military? This is the kind of stuff he needs to read.

 

[logicallefty]

Where is the kid from the other thread who wanted to join the military? This is the kind of stuff he needs to read.

Yeeeep. This is how the American male gets awarded for both having a family and serving his country at the same time.

My cousin cheated on her husband while he was away in the Navy. My sisters and I were talking about it years ago when I actually liked my sisters. I was still mostly blue pill back then but in process of becoming red pill. I called our cousin a wh0re... My sisters blew up at me and said "Shut up Lefty, you don't know the whole story!!" and actually defended the cousin.. My argument was "what story is there to know? She cheated on a man serving our country and she is a hoe". This is where women really floor me sometimes. How no matter how bad they do, other women will come to their defense.

 

[LiveFreeX]

And what sucks is your sisters ARE the country, so he was basically out serving wh0res and players. The military is NOT worth it.

 

[hanni]

he chose poorly and is definitely better off without her.