"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LAY REPORT: Colombian chick from Pacha

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LAY REPORT: Colombian chick from Pacha

So this is from awhile ago. I've been meaning to get around to it so here goes...

I went to Pacha on a Saturday night/ Sunday morning and it was dead. Ya, I was by myself too because I don't really give a **** lol. Anyway, I made a eye contact with a few girls there and saw a few checking me out after that.

I figured I had a few to choose from. The only problem was that there was like a pack of men following a lot of these girls around. SO for a good moment, I walked around and looked like I was on my phone by browsing the internet. I did this while casually scoping out for high interest investments.

Since no really attractive girls were coming up to me then I decided to take some initiative. The first and only girl I went up to was a Colombian girl. I just went up to her and did a high five. I held her hand for a couple of seconds to build the tension and then let go.

I asked her some formal questions like, "What were you doing before here and who are you with?"

She had high interest from the beginning, she just wasn't the type of girl to go up to a guy. Once I did the high five it was on.

I was literally making out with her within 5 mins into the interaction. To initiate escalation I did the high five. From the high five I put my arm around her waste lightly. I made sure to let go after a few seconds and initiate briefly, here and there.

When I saw that she was okay with the arm around her waist then I pulled her a little closer and kissed her. I'm not a big kisser so I try to avoid it in most cases but I kissed her around 3 more times before I suggested going to another venue.

There was a guy passing out flyers for a place in queens earlier in the street. I told her it looked interesting and that I might go there.

She told me that she would go also because she lived in queens. So she told her friends that she wanted to go with me and they were cool about it for the most part. After we left, I told her that I had to go back to my place to get money and then we would head to the place.

When we got to my place I paid the cab and we went up to my place. We started making out in the elevator and I was feeling on her super nice Colombian ass and tits. I'm not going to go into details, but I was really ****in turned on.

In my place I put in a movie on my laptop and went to the bathroom. I counted how much money I had on me to go to queens and figured I might as well just try to **** her because it was already pretty late.

So I went back in my room and watched some Boondocks on Netflix. We made out at random times and would just chill and laugh at the show.

After the episode was over, I started making out with her again. This time I went straight for the vajayjay and started undoing her pants. I fingered her for around 15 mins until she was super wet. Then I pulled down her pants while I continued fingering.

After that I took my pants off and pulled my **** out while placing her hand on it so she could see how aroused I was. I could tell that she was getting super aroused too.

I had my pants next to me and took out a condom. I took it out of the wrapper and guided her hand to my junk to put it on, while making her put it on for me. I went through a whole pack of condoms that night.

After we ****ed I showed her videos of one of RSD Julien's lectures about emtional spikes and she said something about how funny it was that so many guys were there.

Once again I saw that taking the initiative pays off and if you aren't having much success then it might be tracked by the initiative one is willing to take. IMO, when you are willing to take the risks is when one will be rewarded the most in PUA.

Anyway, was a fun night and thanks again for reading this. Hope I may have helped some of you guys out there and good luck!

-PUA Redsky
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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parkthebus

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Lay report or erotica? Something about the image of you showing her PUA clips after banging is hilarious. Maybe the fact that she might realise she just got gamed? If she's got her head on straight, she shouldn't care though. Most women know that the build up to sex is a game.
 

Juan Rabo

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I love Pacha. Many a girl has been degraded from there. Good job on the pull because the guy/girl ratio there is liek 70%
 

Redzky

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Sorry guys, just saw all these replies. Much thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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