"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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From the UK so the US political system is a bit confusing from across the pond.

I don't understand how the Republicans can control Congress by such a majority and yet be unelectable in a Presidential election. Surely the same people voting Republicans to Congress would vote the same way? Why is this not the case?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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From the UK so the US political system is a bit confusing from across the pond.

I don't understand how the Republicans can control Congress by such a majority and yet be unelectable in a Presidential election. Surely the same people voting Republicans to Congress would vote the same way? Why is this not the case?
The President and Vice-President are elected via nationwide voting and then by the Electoral College where various states have slightly different rules on how appointed electors cast their votes.

Senatorial elections are at the state level. Members of the House of Representatives are elected in Congressional Districts defined at the state level.

So the President is elected nationally, Senators state-by-state and Representatives district-by-district.
 

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we are a HUGE country, 300 million people, 5 million square miles of territory, lots of different ideas and those ideas change.
 

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From the UK so the US political system is a bit confusing from across the pond.

I don't understand how the Republicans can control Congress by such a majority and yet be unelectable in a Presidential election. Surely the same people voting Republicans to Congress would vote the same way? Why is this not the case?
In the rest of the world, the party that controls the legislative branch, assumes control of the executive branch. In the U.S., it isn't set up like that due to the system of checks and balances that the Founding Fathers put into place when they drafted the Constitution. The election for President and Congress are two separate elections.
 

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The US is two countries, the red states and the blue states. It is a cultural divide.



Red States:
Obama is a Muslim devil
Pro-Gun
Pro-religion
Anti-Immigrant
Republican

For the blue states, reverse all of those viewpoints. Obama is a nice guy who tries hard.

I live in Illinois. Geographically, it is mostly a red state, but the population density in Chicago is what makes it blue on the map. That's similar to the US as a whole. The electoral college rewards areas of dense population, as does the allocation of seats per state within the US House of Representatives.

That red and blue map is not too far off from the way that the country divided in the US Civil War, 155 or so years ago.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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except that most of the states didn't exist in 1860. In fact, most people had never even heard of them as territories. But also, half of the kids today can't identify half of them on a map.
 
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