“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's just an act of kindness. True that some people may not deserve such acts but it's nice to know that there are people kind enough to do it in the first place.

Oh yeah, I never understood why servers get all upset about poor tippers or not getting tipped at all. I don't think they understand that the company that they work for that has tip based pay is literally stealing their paycheck and keeping it for themselves.

It's pretty smart actually, pay them well below minimum wage just to have the customers pay their paycheck for them. It does bother me that people complain about it though, I mean you applied for the job in the first place...
 

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America is the only country that does this silly shyt.
 
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Nobody commented on the assh0le that felt the need to post his good deed on facebook, no doubt in an attempt to bolster his social standing amongst his peers - Look at me! I'm so successful and caring that I manage to take pity on someone else.

Fvck that guy and fvck facebook.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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From what I understand from this current chick I'm talking to that's a bartender/waitress, they are paid about $2.13 per hour and if there's no tip provided on the sale, sometimes they could end up "negative" and have to PAY the house for the table in particular. I don't really understand this in full, but it's just what I heard.

I also heard that if people come in, sit down, run up a bill of $50 and then they all DIP OUT without paying, that the waitress has to PAY the entire $50 bill to the house or something.
 

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I did not work on Christmas day, but I'm not taking any days off in this time of the year. Why ? Because I have work to do and I want to get ahead in life. Also, in the last 3 months I've been working 14 or more hours per day, in order to get ahead in life. I've done this many, many times throughout my career.

Where's my tip ?
 

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From what I understand from this current chick I'm talking to that's a bartender/waitress, they are paid about $2.13 per hour and if there's no tip provided on the sale, sometimes they could end up "negative" and have to PAY the house for the table in particular. I don't really understand this in full, but it's just what I heard.

I also heard that if people come in, sit down, run up a bill of $50 and then they all DIP OUT without paying, that the waitress has to PAY the entire $50 bill to the house or something.
That's true they're paid $2.13 an hour.

I'm not sure about the going negative part though. But that type of job is commission based, you can make a lot or the opposite. They signed up for it...
 

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Alturism stinks of fallacy

Agree with @TyTe`EyEz ....

Shocking that this imbecile feels the need to tell the world about his good deed via Friendface...
Look at me everybody....what a good guy I am. Wanker.
Try perform and act of kindness and tell no-one about it...

But yeah this is another example of women being looked after in society....they'll always have
their own gender, the government and white knights rushing in to help them...

When you're a man.....you sink or swim. You fall...ain't nobody coming to bail you out. Society and women look down on a man with weaknessess..
 

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From what I understand from this current chick I'm talking to that's a bartender/waitress, they are paid about $2.13 per hour and if there's no tip provided on the sale, sometimes they could end up "negative" and have to PAY the house for the table in particular. I don't really understand this in full, but it's just what I heard.

I also heard that if people come in, sit down, run up a bill of $50 and then they all DIP OUT without paying, that the waitress has to PAY the entire $50 bill to the house or something.
My ex (kids mom) has always worked waitress jobs. She can't hold a job long, but that's another story lol. I have never heard of her going negative before. She used to actually make a lot of tips. People used to do dine and dash all the time at the restaurant she worked at. She never had to pay for the bill.

Alturism stinks of fallacy

Agree with @TyTe`EyEz ....

Shocking that this imbecile feels the need to tell the world about his good deed via Friendface...
Look at me everybody....what a good guy I am. Wanker.
Try perform and act of kindness and tell no-one about it...

But yeah this is another example of women being looked after in society....they'll always have
their own gender, the government and white knights rushing in to help them...

When you're a man.....you sink or swim. You fall...ain't nobody coming to bail you out. Society and women look down on a man with weaknessess..
I agree. The best way to do a good deed is tell no one about it. Your not supposed to try to make yourself look better because of it.

I'm a single dad. I have my kid Mon - Fri every week. I don't expect hand outs. I work hard for my money and do not expect any pity.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Much respect for being a strong single dad. A lot of time women will "blame the man" in that instance so it may be hard to gain respect with many of them. Of course a real female friend understands your position. It's a hard place to be but I'm sure satisfying and true for you...
 

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Where's my tip ?
Tips come in two forms; the ones handed to you in cash for being a poor helpless single mommy, or, the ones attached to your c0ck. You can only have one or the other.
 

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Until recently, I generally didn't tip. However, I live in a country where servers make minimum wage, NOT $2 per hour. They make the same money as someone at McDonalds, and McDonalds employees generally don't get any tips. Recently, I've noticed that the servers have started getting vicious when you don't tip them. Excuse me? I'm a single dad supporting a child. I can't afford to be tipping everyone. You opened a bottle of beer for me, and you deserve extra money for that on top of the $11 per hour you already make for opening beers?

In the US and many other countries, it makes sense to tip these workers because they are underpaid. In Canada, they are NOT underpaid. Minimum wage is appropriate for delivering food and opening beer bottles.
 
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