When you start to look aged embrace your experience in life; it is the more valuable asset.
Stagger I think lots of male responses have tried to explain it to you as well as Charmaine, but for whatever reason you are not really listening. You don't seem to like the message but it is no less the truth.
Attraction for a woman is NOT the same as for a man.
For women with lots of choices "gorgeous" really can't hold interest if the rest of the package is hollow or shallow. You'll either get shallow women (who may bore you, be terribly unstable and/or have dreadful drama) or you'll get used and dropped because ugliness on the inside (shallow, insecure, no substance etc.) will kill the attraction that the exterior initially created. Getting dropped without understanding why will create additional insecurity so it creates an awful cycle. The remedy for this is nothing to do with looks! It's all mental.
My ex-husband was good looking but had much more going on than just looks.
You want a girl who thinks YOU are attractive just the way you are today (to date, to fool around with, whatever). My ex-husband remains a good friend of mine and he has attractive very young ladies 20-25 who he appeals to. He's 49. It's not because he looks like Adonis. It's because he has a worldliness about him, a sexiness, he knows how to handle himself with women; kind of like the guy in the Dos Equis commercials.
How you attract people includes your looks, but that is a fraction of it. Do you think because you have a handsome face that girls should fall all over you and you are worried that your appeal is slipping because your face has a line or two? Your appeal may actually increase so long as you are a man behind the face worth paying attention to.
Your fixation on aging and comes off as insecure. Insecurity is without exception a colossal turn-off. Maybe you are accidently putting insecure vibes out there. That will kill attraction, your body language will give you away every time if she is the sort of girl you really want to chat up.
For me attraction is about experience and leadership. The physical part of attraction does mean that I have to find the guy physically appealing (my ideal combo is a handsome, sexy, confident, and easy going leader) but that varies from man to man insofar as face & body. I want someone who is a leader I can submit/defer to because I have confidence in his ability.
That means I focus on who he is above what he looks like (although looks is a piece of it.)
To me a boyish face screams inexperience, which I am not interested in and do not have time to waste on. As Zekko said, not a puppy. Puppies have to be housebroken. No thanks.
How is a puppy going to lead a successful, accomplished woman when she has lots of options? He can't. So I for one have zero interest in that, no matter how handsome the guy is. This is why the girls you REALLY want often are actually with the older guys. The quality men understand their currency, and the quality women understand their currency (although that generally goes unstated.)
It really has less to do with your face and more to do with the man who occupies the body, not the other way 'round. You face is not the issue. Your attitude is.