So i remember one of my mates who went on a self improvement phase and in between that time he told his girl that he does not want to speak to her AT ALL. lol. What did that do?She went crazy. She loved the fact that her man was controlling himself thus the idea of trying to break him became an obsession of hers.
It made me think. We all try our best to GET women but maybe the very idea of GETTING or TRYING to get women is the downfall?
Moreover, ive realised how there are some girls who are still in love with guys who have told them ' weve got to part ways for now as im too busy.'
My life is changing. The girl i am with drained me. Not her fault but my deperatness took me to a dark place. I m now in a mindset where i dont really care if i loose her. I am on a self improvement programme. In one of the passages i was reading off a book, it stated how women, although bring us pleasure ultimately are a distraction to our goals and focus in life. The more we invest in them the more we drift from becoming the complete MAN.
Ive decided that I am going to tell my girl to stop contacting me and meet me once am month. I wont be harsh about it but soft, caring and loving and explain to her why im doing so.
Its a win win. I get to fully focus on myself. Thats the main goal.
It made me think. We all try our best to GET women but maybe the very idea of GETTING or TRYING to get women is the downfall?
Moreover, ive realised how there are some girls who are still in love with guys who have told them ' weve got to part ways for now as im too busy.'
My life is changing. The girl i am with drained me. Not her fault but my deperatness took me to a dark place. I m now in a mindset where i dont really care if i loose her. I am on a self improvement programme. In one of the passages i was reading off a book, it stated how women, although bring us pleasure ultimately are a distraction to our goals and focus in life. The more we invest in them the more we drift from becoming the complete MAN.
Ive decided that I am going to tell my girl to stop contacting me and meet me once am month. I wont be harsh about it but soft, caring and loving and explain to her why im doing so.
Its a win win. I get to fully focus on myself. Thats the main goal.
