"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey big Neil and stripper buffs...

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I get to occasionally visit the clubs and get comps etc...and b I'm thinking I should turn it up a notch by having multiple dancers just focused on me.

I mean, I get the rooms attention cuz I always bring a prop or knick knack to bring up. Like my lucky whatevet.

But yea...it's cash out the window so I'm thinking spend it on 3 at once.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What?
 

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What are you trying to do with them?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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After 4 years of dating strippers I'm done with strippers. In general, with strippers, the best you can hope for is to share her with 2 other guys, and that's if she likes you.

This quote summed them up from last summer:

"Why can't I get a guy to stay with me like some of my friends have? They date Neurosurgeons and they cheat on those guys but those guys will never leave them."

Not what I aspire to be. But for good measure I reminded her that I (currently) make twice what a good Neurosurgeon makes (they make about $170,000 a year) and I don't have student loans or malpractice insurance and she was puzzled because I live in an apartment and she imagined them having chauffers and mansions.

Another time she said "I dated a guy who had a black card." (A gimmick American Express card made to capitalize on a fable circa 1999). It requires you spend $20K per month. I currently earn $22K per month but women aren't good at math.

"Oh yeah?" I asked.

"What did he do for a living?"

Crickets.

"What do you mean?" she asked. "He's a multimillionaire" she confirmed. That was the second stripper who used that term, as if that's the be all and end all term to describe men.

"What does he do?" I repeated.

(He has a rich dad) I ultimately learned.

That's when it occurred to me that women are just disposable creatures and they see us just the same.
 

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After 4 years of dating strippers I'm done with strippers. In general, with strippers, the best you can hope for is to share her with 2 other guys, and that's if she likes you.
This is reality. Thanks for summing it up for the rest of the website. If you are lucky you are the main one dipping in and the other two occasionally get in.

This quote summed them up from last summer:

"Why can't I get a guy to stay with me like some of my friends have? They date Neurosurgeons and they cheat on those guys but those guys will never leave them."
LOL.

Not what I aspire to be. But for good measure I reminded her that I (currently) make twice what a good Neurosurgeon makes (they make about $170,000 a year) and I don't have student loans or malpractice insurance and she was puzzled because I live in an apartment and she imagined them having chauffers and mansions.
It's pretty hilarious how simply the categorize men.

Another time she said "I dated a guy who had a black card." (A gimmick American Express card made to capitalize on a fable circa 1999). It requires you spend $20K per month. I currently earn $22K per month but women aren't good at math.

"Oh yeah?" I asked.

"What did he do for a living?"

Crickets.
LOL

"What do you mean?" she asked. "He's a multimillionaire" she confirmed. That was the second stripper who used that term, as if that's the be all and end all term to describe men.

"What does he do?" I repeated.

(He has a rich dad) I ultimately learned.

That's when it occurred to me that women are just disposable creatures and they see us just the same.

Not all, but ones who commoditize us men like some of us do women are disposable.

I'm glad your DONE with strippers. Now onto females with "good" jobs, they think theres not enough good men around, and if you are very physically attractive to them it will be a nice icing on the cake.
 

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Is this another troll post?

Is Op seriously asking as to whether if he visits a strip bar he should get more than one dancer at a time?
 

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But for good measure I reminded her that I (currently) make twice what a good Neurosurgeon makes (they make about $170,000 a year)

It requires you spend $20K per month. I currently earn $22K per month but women aren't good at math.
Neither are you. 170,000 x 2 = 340,000
22,000 x 12 = 264,000
76,000 dollar difference breh.
 

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Roasted
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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After 4 years of dating strippers I'm done with strippers. In general, with strippers, the best you can hope for is to share her with 2 other guys, and that's if she likes you.
Neil, I would be glad to hear you gave up strippers, although I'm a little skeptical since at your age old habits can be hard to break, lol.

Rollo always used to say that picking up strippers required top notch game. I don't know if I agree with that, but I wonder how the things you've learned from dealing with them might be applied to more, shall we say "quality" women? Best of luck to you!
 

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Neither are you. 170,000 x 2 = 340,000
22,000 x 12 = 264,000
76,000 dollar difference breh.
"Becker's Hospital Review" reported that neurosurgeons enjoyed an annual average salary of $767,627 in 2010. Median salaries jumped from $592,811 in 2009 to $625,300 in 2010, the "New England Journal of Medicine" reported. Such high salaries, according to "Becker's," are due to the scarcity of neurosurgeons, the expectation that these specialists will have excessive on-call demands and the complexity of cases." Also Median starting salary was 395k so big nope to Big Neil.

Sorry Big Neil, I know you really want to believe it but A) Money ain't all that important for the things that matter and B) you ain't that rich bru
 

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"Becker's Hospital Review" reported that neurosurgeons enjoyed an annual average salary of $767,627 in 2010. Median salaries jumped from $592,811 in 2009 to $625,300 in 2010, the "New England Journal of Medicine" reported. Such high salaries, according to "Becker's," are due to the scarcity of neurosurgeons, the expectation that these specialists will have excessive on-call demands and the complexity of cases." Also Median starting salary was 395k so big nope to Big Neil.

Sorry Big Neil, I know you really want to believe it but A) Money ain't all that important for the things that matter and B) you ain't that rich bru
He's still upper 1-2%... Which he should respect and also insist anyone benefitting from his generousity should also respect.
 

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She's selling he's buying, respect has nothing to do with it. He doesn't respect her and she doesn't respect him, hard to respect someone who is so obviously insecure.
 

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Neil, I would be glad to hear you gave up strippers, although I'm a little skeptical since at your age old habits can be hard to break, lol.

Rollo always used to say that picking up strippers required top notch game. I don't know if I agree with that, but I wonder how the things you've learned from dealing with them might be applied to more, shall we say "quality" women? Best of luck to you!
They push the limits of beauty, age difference, and promiscuity, so if you can deal with that you can deal with anything. You come out of it like tempered glass.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sorry Big Neil, I know you really want to believe it but A) Money ain't all that important for the things that matter and B) you ain't that rich bru
First: So which one is it? If I have money, then it's not that important, but if I don't, I ain't that rich? What a dumbass. Oh and I guess I only talk about how to date strippers too Maximum Flex.

Second: For the record, I took home $142,970 in the past 7 months, the equivalent of a $385,574 salary.

MATH for Dummies: $385,000 / 12 = $33.000 * .67 (see IRS) = $22,000.

Neither are you. 170,000 x 2 = 340,000
22,000 x 12 = 264,000
76,000 dollar difference breh.
"Roasted" Scuzboss? I said I TOOK HOME $22,000 per month. Have you ever heard of income taxes? Oh wait, that implies you have had a job before.

Third: Doctors wish they made as much as me! From salary.com:

Doctor Salary
  • How much does a Doctor make?

    • The median annual Physician - Generalist salary is $187,437 with a range usually between $162,284 - $209,655.
 
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