Tests and disrespect

[Alpheta]

She will bring it up. She will either just say the thing that "annoys" you again in which case you go right into saying she won't get away with it bla bla in a playful but hard tone, or she will ask if you're fine, in which case you say "yeah" and then she won't get away with it bla bla in a playful but hard tone. When she asks you "hihihi what are you gonna do?" you say you're gonna leave a red mark on her @ss from spanking her. All right? easy.

i like the sound of that lol. Ill do that and keep updated

 

[dustmuffin]

You see, i always do it. I tease her etc and what not. Its just certain things my gut makes me feel uncomfortable. My mother never said stuff like that to my father so i guess thats why.

Thing is she KNOWS from a few months back that i dont like it. She stopped it. Then started and kept going when i let it slide. My gut tells me its a test. Why?Because there was no need for her to say it again today when just before i told her not to and she agreed.Not only did she agree butshe mentions that shes glad i pointed it out to her because now she knows and wants me to be open.lol

These are ground rules. Ive set them so going back on them surely makes me seem weak.

If you want to keep her embrace play. That is the answer. Forget all the macho bs about respect. SHE ISNT BEING DISRESPECTFUL SHE WANTS TO PLAY. SHE WANTS YOUR ATTENTION! GIVE IT TO HER AND **** HER! EITHER THAT OR GO FIND A DULL WOMAN WHO WILL BE MORE TO YOUR LIKING!

 

[AttackFormation]

Dustmuffin, your words are like gospel from the sky.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Your problem is you sound like you're just bitching just to *****. I don't even think it really bothers you that much but you're looking at alpha and dominance like a program when it's about WHAT DO YOU REALLY feel comfortable with.

If it really does bother you, the f what advice you are getting...yes act accordingly to how you displayed. If it REALLY doesnt, play with her

 

[Alpheta]

Your problem is you sound like you're just *****ing just to *****. I don't even think it really bothers you that much but you're looking at alpha and dominance like a program when it's about WHAT DO YOU REALLY feel comfortable with.

If it really does bother you, the f what advice you are getting...yes act accordingly to how you displayed. If it REALLY doesnt, play with her

i tell you what. she just called again. I could have taken attackformations advice but i didnt pick up. It just isnt me. I love playing with her.I am a very sarcastic and jokey/witty guy. Its just when i feel like im being treaded on by ANYONE i get very annoyed. Theres a joke, then theres taking advantage.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Then u were right in your actions. If itbothers you, it bothers you.

 

[Alpheta]

Then u were right in your actions. If itbothers you, it bothers you.

alot of this ive realised is conditioning as a child. My father has NEVER taken **** from my mother. My mum still tests him to this day and to this day the man has his ways of dealing with them. This type of talk could never be tolerated by my father, ever. Yea hes old skool but guess what?After 25 years together, my mother is wrapped around his finger like no other. She does every.single.thing. my father tells her, and she LOVES him.

Maybe it doesnt work in the modern age but its just hard for me to embrace stuff i cant feel okay with.

eg. buying flowers. NEVER to this day has my father brought roses for my mother. EVERYTIME a woman asksme for some, i just cant do it. I cant explain why but i just cant.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

alot of this ive realised is conditioning as a child. My father has NEVER taken **** from my mother. My mum still tests him to this day and to this day the man has his ways of dealing with them. This type of talk could never be tolerated by my father, ever. Yea hes old skool but guess what?After 25 years together, my mother is wrapped around his finger like no other. She does every.single.thing. my father tells her, and she LOVES him.

Maybe it doesnt work in the modern age but its just hard for me to embrace stuff i cant feel okay with.

eg. buying flowers. NEVER to this day has my father brought roses for my mother. EVERYTIME a woman asksme for some, i just cant do it. I cant explain why but i just cant.

Just do what you want mate. If you don't want to deal with this kind of behaviour just don't tolerate it. There are girls who won't do this ****, so who cares about this specific one.

This said, AttackFormation and dustmuffin were probably right, she was just playing, but then again don't tolerate this if you don't want to.

 

[Alpheta]

You're being a little bit of a baby but at the same time I do understand that there are guys she would not be openly pushing the limit on. You're obviously not one of them and that's obviously not a comfortable place to be for anyone. You can interpret it either way or both.

Come again? I didn't understand what you meant by the above

 

[dustmuffin]

Just do what you want mate. If you don't want to deal with this kind of behaviour just don't tolerate it. There are girls who won't do this ****, so who cares about this specific one.

This said, AttackFormation and dustmuffin were probably right, she was just playing, but then again don't tolerate this if you don't want to.

Send her my way she sounds like fun. Kind of like a puppy.