"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Teetotal Solo Game in Bars and Clubs

Backtothedojo

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Hi All,

I've recently come out of a long term relationship, and I'm having to learn the game again.

I want to go out to the bars and clubs of my local city to get my rejection count up again. I have no wing man, I'm teetotal. Any advice for solo game?

(on a side note, coming back to the community after so many years away feels life coming home. It's nice to see you all again)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dustmuffin

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Hi All,

I've recently come out of a long term relationship, and I'm having to learn the game again.

I want to go out to the bars and clubs of my local city to get my rejection count up again. I have no wing man, I'm teetotal. Any advice for solo game?

(on a side note, coming back to the community after so many years away feels life coming home. It's nice to see you all again)
Welcome..I would use meet ups. I haven't been to bars but I would just make sure they have na beer and drink that. I have been sober for 20 years. Only adive I have is just do it. Go to smaller bars and look for single women. Just in and out if no prospects. The singles are there to f uck.
Just do it.
 
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