Females needing to make u feel bad when it ends

[kenpiffyjr]

whats up with this?

Chick and I basically called it quits. She was pretty attractive but insecure. She had a AFC guy who possibly gave her the world before she met me (and still in the picture trying to win her back lol) and I pretty much ran a alpha aloof strategy knowing this. We had great sex and basically she loved all of my forward physical escalations even in public. She would constantly get upset at me for silly **** like not texting her all the time at work and what I feel like things she probably compared to the AFC as someone who "really loves her". We had "the talk" and I Told her we clearly weren't in a relationship...especially with this guy hanging around, and that I'm ok with just dating and be uncommitted. This I can tell severely got to her.

Our last argument basically untied the strings and I believe I made a beta emotional statement through text like "if u want to be involved with me, then be involved. If you don't, then don't" and she just said then I won't. Now she's telling all her friends who I have had conversations with that I want her all about me and not showing the same in return. Mind you in my mind and through ACTIONS I was.

My question is: do you guys chalk this up to disguised low interest from a female like this or do you guys ever run into aspects where you being alpha and spinning may make an insecure chick just seek someone else?

Thanks

 

[grayclif]

I don't think what you said was beta. Yes, your second statement is correct. She could just be insecure seeking someone else.

When I cut a girl off the other day she said she never had anyone break up with her before, she'd always been the one to do the breaking up. I simply said I wasn't interested in "x type of behavior" and left. She promised not to do it again but damage was done and I thought it would be weak to go back.

 

[NSX-R]

Why are you giving attention to such things?

 

[Fitters]

Do what I did.

Play it cool and wait for her weakness.
****kk her and cummm on her face then block her

 

[Sprayarc]

whats up with this?

Chick and I basically called it quits. She was pretty attractive but insecure. She had a AFC guy who possibly gave her the world before she met me (and still in the picture trying to win her back lol) and I pretty much ran a alpha aloof strategy knowing this. We had great sex and basically she loved all of my forward physical escalations even in public. She would constantly get upset at me for silly **** like not texting her all the time at work and what I feel like things she probably compared to the AFC as someone who "really loves her". We had "the talk" and I Told her we clearly weren't in a relationship...especially with this guy hanging around, and that I'm ok with just dating and be uncommitted. This I can tell severely got to her.

Our last argument basically untied the strings and I believe I made a beta emotional statement through text like "if u want to be involved with me, then be involved. If you don't, then don't" and she just said then I won't. Now she's telling all her friends who I have had conversations with that I want her all about me and not showing the same in return. Mind you in my mind and through ACTIONS I was.

My question is: do you guys chalk this up to disguised low interest from a female like this or do you guys ever run into aspects where you being alpha and spinning may make an insecure chick just seek someone else?

Thanks

A couple of things. One that helps rationalize that she did nothing wrong and she's completely justified. Women don't like thinking that they did something wrong because they have poor emotional management. Also possibly more of a side effect is that if you feel guilty when you feel like its your fault you will think that if you change for her, she will come back. It's very hard for a woman to leave you if you don't care.

 

[logicallefty]

I don't think what you said was beta. Yes, your second statement is correct. She could just be insecure seeking someone else.

When I cut a girl off the other day she said she never had anyone break up with her before, she'd always been the one to do the breaking up. I simply said I wasn't interested in "x type of behavior" and left. She promised not to do it again but damage was done and I thought it would be weak to go back.

^^^this

OP your response was fine. "if u want to be involved with me, then be involved. If you don't, then don't" is not beta at all IMO. I have said the same thing with a different choice of words, in fact, I said this to the last STR I just ended a few weeks ago: "I won't be another one of your orbiters begging like a dog to be with you. I have other options as well. With me we are either seeing each other, or we are not."

 

[Trump]

My question is: do you guys chalk this up to disguised low interest from a female like this or do you guys ever run into aspects where you being alpha and spinning may make an insecure chick just seek someone else?

Come on bro, you are so good that she has "disguised low interest?" You are so good and are "too alpha, rich, attractive, and famous" that she can't handle it and seeks a guy with no job and no prospects? Yeah I don't think that's it.

Don't give a girl an ultimatum, how sexy is that? Not sure how guys sleep with hot girls and then when things don't go to your liking you ask questions like this.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

That's why I asked if the ultimatum is beta, because a part of me thinks the ultimatum was was a bit beta just based on the fact that I'm giving her options.


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[Poon King]

Who gives a sh!t? Start spinning new plates. Life is too short to waste thinking about b!tches with mental problems.

I never feel bad about doing anything I believe is right. If other people don't like it.. that's on them. I won't feel bad as long as I approve of what I did. And this is the mindset that will allow you to STOP chasing after a woman's interest level. Hypergamy is real and women WILL lose interest in you over time (unless you lose interest first) the majority of the time. It is not something worth analyzing and it has more to do with HER than you.

Too many men waste precious time crying over dumb b!tches who aren't worth sh!t. Wake up men.

 

[Reykhel]

A cat will play with a mouse for a while before she kills it...(ie when her interest is gone...)

don't be the mouse in this situation....be busy being gone

women communicate covertly.....show her who you are and what you
want by your actions....she goes with it, she goes with it...

if she doesn't....what do you care....your busy with your other options and persuits