Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Don't be a prick man. You're above that.So eight douche bag morons with machine guns and bombs can only kill 100 unarmed people? The most fortunate aspect of the attacks is the ridiculous incompetence of the attackers.
You're not completely wrong.......but the problem goes a little bit deeper.Let's be completely transparent....
These are muslim invaders, and the right wing people many hate so very much warned and warned about this and their reward was to be called xenophobic, racist, backward, freedom-hating, etc,...
These left-wing extremists who provide cover for these murderers need to be held accountable. The blood is on their hands as much as it is on the killers themselves.
Imagine that.After the second world war they brought over migrants from Africa to rebuild the city...then they put the immigrants outside of the
city in ghettos. The kids of these immigrants have grown up feeling ostracised........French born Tunisian kids spray
painting "fvck France on walls"
Agree there. Just like every country that has suffered from liberal policies.it's a breeding ground for recruitment for the so called IS wankers
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You are right not liberal at all. But this came from a very liberal online site.Having poor minorities build up your country and then forcing them into ghettos is not what I'd call "liberal".
That said, its time for the USA, France, Russia, Iran, Turkey, Lebanon, and the Saudis to put an end to ISIS. And its especially important for Arab nations to put some serious boots on the ground and stop relying on Russia and the USA to clean this up.
We're just lucky that Mexicans believe in Christ - Christians tend not to go on killing sprees.Yup.
The reality is, they should have sent the workers back after the job was done. And they NEVER should have let in the invaders.
Anybody with a brain could have seen this coming from miles away. But this is how terrorized the citizens and leaders are of being called "racist". Best to let the invaders in to murder citizens en masse, but please please don't call me racist.
Destroying peoples livelihoods for suggesting immigrants like this are a bad idea is occupational terrorism. Occupational terrorism is the first to precede physical terrorism.
This is coming to every western white country on the planet. Something wicked this way comes.
Ironically, ISIS does, too. They're an end times cult following a prophecy that, after their armies get beaten back to near annihilation, Jesus will return to Earth to lead THEM to victory. I swear I am not making this up.We're just lucky that Mexicans believe in Christ
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I have military service Mr Knowall........I've already crossed the recruitment line for whatKeyboard soldiers are little boys san clue one.
I respect that. So what's up with the hostility?USN MAC/V 1969-1972 Pleiku
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.