"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Video Recording Sex

Reyaj

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So this is something I'd like to do. I know a lot of girls will be opposed to this, so I was thinking of maybe getting a hidden camera in my bed room. Anyone actively do this or have any advice?

Looking forward to kicking back one evening with a few beers watching and j$rkin off to my own sexual adventures.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If that's your thing man, go for it.

However you will want to look into the law. Some part of this sounds quite illegal, though I'm no lawyer.
Probably is...the other person would need to be aware you are recording them.
 

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Depending on your state this is almost certainly breaking privacy and/or unlawful surveillance laws. The repercussions are probably even worse if it is leaked or you share it. You're an adult, do what you want. Just know the risks.

And yes it's a bit creepy but I would imagine that most if not all the guys on here do or are turned on by things that nearly everyone would deem creepy. Theres a stick in your eye gentlemen...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ask @bradd80 , I seem to recall him saying he's a lawyer. If I were you, I would ask the bird if you can record it, watch it with her and then delete it when you're finished. If you want it for the future, ask her if you can shoot from an angle where you can't see her face.
 

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just put a hidden camera, or use your laptom cam and use some tape to hide the webcam's led.

Easy as pie.
 

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Or you know just let the girl know you're recording her . you'll be surprised of how many will actually let you record them I say plant seeds of it before you ask
 

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Just ask. I've gotten several videos just by asking and being persuasive.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alternatively, you could just record everything in your home, including any sex that you have. Because it's not limited just to sex and more a security precaution, there's no privacy issues. You should be doing this anyway in case of any false rape accusations by women who feel jilted by you.

Besides, a woman who comes into YOUR home has no expectation of privacy in anything other than, for example, her purse or phone.
 

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Alternatively, you could just record everything in your home, including any sex that you have. Because it's not limited just to sex and more a security precaution, there's no privacy issues. You should be doing this anyway in case of any false rape accusations by women who feel jilted by you.

Besides, a woman who comes into YOUR home has no expectation of privacy in anything other than, for example, her purse or phone.
Word! What is the best way to do this? Like what kind of camera to get and where to put it etc....
 

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Besides, a woman who comes into YOUR home has no expectation of privacy in anything other than, for example, her purse or phone.
That, my friend, is an issue of fact, which in a trial goes to the finder of fact, which is the judge, or in the case of a jury trial, the jury. So you'd have to convince a half-dozen or so women that it was reasonable to expect that a sex tape would be made every time they went to a guy's house and had sex with him. Good luck with that. Kobe Bryant's legal team could probably pull it off, but not any lawyer that most people would be able to afford.
 

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That, my friend, is an issue of fact, which in a trial goes to the finder of fact, which is the judge, or in the case of a jury trial, the jury. So you'd have to convince a half-dozen or so women that it was reasonable to expect that a sex tape would be made every time they went to a guy's house and had sex with him. Good luck with that. Kobe Bryant's legal team could probably pull it off, but not any lawyer that most people would be able to afford.
It's not illegal to videotape whatever you want on your own personal property, hidden cameras or not. It does however become a problem if it's published in any way, but for personal use nobody can stop you without breaking the law themselves.
 

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That depends on your state, and it's specific law, as well as how they enforce it. "Consent" is a gray area. A sign on the door at a public store is enough to create consent...but not to film you naked in the restroom. Reasonableness is always the key to interpreting gray areas. If you want to stand in front of some wrinkled old feminist hag of a judge and try to convince her that the sign in your front yard that said "Protected by ADT Security" created consent to make sex tapes....well, good luck with that. I'm not saying it's impossible; it's just not a situation I would want to be in.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A private tape for private purposes made on private self-owned property won't be illegal. Regardless of state, or in fact in any Western country.

You're confusing public places with private places, there's stricter rules for public places.
 

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Twelve states have two-party consent laws. Illinois just amended their law, but it is still a two-party consent state.

http://www.chicagoreader.com/chicag...ntless-surveillance-aclu/Content?oid=16244806
As for conversations between ordinary citizens, the new law makes it illegal to surreptitiously record any communication when one or more parties has a "reasonable expectation" of privacy. What's a "reasonable" expectation? "Any expectation recognized by law." If you don't know what that might cover (and who but a legal expert would?), you're back to requiring express permission before you hit record if you want to be safe from potential prosecution.
 

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Not cool. Puts you in the same class as a sexual predator
Nope , rather been accused of illegal video taping than rape.All this happen to the same guy. Just take a look to what happen to this guy ohhhh and by the way he is a fvcking judge.

As a man you ALWAYS GUILTY. And this man is a judge. And even with the video , bytch thinks she is right.
Ohh and then the bytch did this:
http://www.dallasnews.com/news/crim...ape-investigation-of-judge-carlos-cortez1.ece
 

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I'd sooner not be accused of any sexual crime.

So...no one here sees anything wrong, with videotaping a woman nude, while she is having sex with you......................without her knowledge?

Is that what I am hearing?
Look man I understand you , I really do. Unfortunately being a man these days is a dangerous thing.
 

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I've never done that, but to be honest with you I wouldn't lose any sleep over it if I did. I thought about doing that. There are many worse sins in life in my opinion. What she doesn't know won't hurt her. Secretly she would probably love it.
Agreed. It is a bit creepy and unethical, but... I don't blame any guy who does this to protect himself. The laws are heavily biased towards women. What some women do to men with false accusations is much much worse than keeping secret surveillance videos of your sex. All it takes is one crazy b*tch...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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