Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
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I believe my paranoia, propensity to getting bored easily and mistrust of women in general coupled with a sense of entitlement are stopping me to properly date.
I usually meet girls in the club where we either make out or in well played cases get me handjobs and ******* in toilets and dark corners, then we exchanged contacts and we keep in touch.
However at that point I find myself unwilling to plan a proper date, for no reason I want them to come to my place and even changing my schedule to meet them annoy me (especially if I have to skip the gym).
I explain the avoidance to take them to my home as a mix of persona paranoia, sense of territory and necessity to quit any boring relations which would come harder if in my own place.
Regarding the schedule, most girls are boring to date, take away the alchool and the kino and there is not much I appreciate, I became a little sociopatic as well, Im able to perfectly simulate interest and fake emphaty on the outside while in the outside Im thinking how to escalate, despite their radar girls dont notice.
Now comes the BIG PROBLEM which I believe is that all this discomfort comes from the fact that these girls are nowhere near the level that I believe is minimum to require to put some effort, I believe that only top girls deserve commitment and effort or discomfort from me so basically these girls despite matching my league simply dont stimulate me to work on them.
To explain myself better I'll use the example of this 6.5 which did a ******* to me at the club 2 weeks ago and now want to go somewhere togheter...well last thursday she called me and I basically told her that I was too tired from the gym and that I would have just had a huge meal, maybe fapped a little bit and then go to sleep early which is exactly what I did.
An other girl asked me one week in advance for a date since I told her I decide day by day what to do, the meeting was supposed to be on friday at 10 but finally went at the gym at 8.30 so needed at least 1 hours plus cardio so simply didnt confirmed and nothing happened...a pretty girl considering the attention she gets from guys but surely not a stunner.
Also it seems girls mid and late 20s have this relationship fetish, that they reprogrammed themselves from fun seekers to "serious" reborn madonnas.
Anyone can relate or suggest some approach to the problem? right now Im just tightening my diet and training regime to improve my body and aim to the top girls hopefully joining the **** and dump olympus in that league.
I usually meet girls in the club where we either make out or in well played cases get me handjobs and ******* in toilets and dark corners, then we exchanged contacts and we keep in touch.
However at that point I find myself unwilling to plan a proper date, for no reason I want them to come to my place and even changing my schedule to meet them annoy me (especially if I have to skip the gym).
I explain the avoidance to take them to my home as a mix of persona paranoia, sense of territory and necessity to quit any boring relations which would come harder if in my own place.
Regarding the schedule, most girls are boring to date, take away the alchool and the kino and there is not much I appreciate, I became a little sociopatic as well, Im able to perfectly simulate interest and fake emphaty on the outside while in the outside Im thinking how to escalate, despite their radar girls dont notice.
Now comes the BIG PROBLEM which I believe is that all this discomfort comes from the fact that these girls are nowhere near the level that I believe is minimum to require to put some effort, I believe that only top girls deserve commitment and effort or discomfort from me so basically these girls despite matching my league simply dont stimulate me to work on them.
To explain myself better I'll use the example of this 6.5 which did a ******* to me at the club 2 weeks ago and now want to go somewhere togheter...well last thursday she called me and I basically told her that I was too tired from the gym and that I would have just had a huge meal, maybe fapped a little bit and then go to sleep early which is exactly what I did.
An other girl asked me one week in advance for a date since I told her I decide day by day what to do, the meeting was supposed to be on friday at 10 but finally went at the gym at 8.30 so needed at least 1 hours plus cardio so simply didnt confirmed and nothing happened...a pretty girl considering the attention she gets from guys but surely not a stunner.
Also it seems girls mid and late 20s have this relationship fetish, that they reprogrammed themselves from fun seekers to "serious" reborn madonnas.
Anyone can relate or suggest some approach to the problem? right now Im just tightening my diet and training regime to improve my body and aim to the top girls hopefully joining the **** and dump olympus in that league.
