"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can you apply anything you've learned about game to other social interactions?

parkthebus

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As an example:

I sometime act indifferent with my mates if I find them not engaging with conversation with me and it usually changes their attitude. I also used it with my ex- girlfriends children. One of them is mildly autistic and so not overly responsive and so I started to give her less attention and focus more on her sister and all of a sudden she really wants to talk to me. I'm also aware of my frame at work a lot more. I think game can teach you more about socialising than just how to get some fertile soil for your seed. It helps me create better relationships at work and outside of work with everyone and anyone.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yes, it does. I have a slide phone. Not that I can't afford any phone on the market that isn't studded in diamonds, but it makes CALLS, which is all I want it to do. A guy I know commented on it being old style, I told him "you should see the one at home, it still has the dial" It took him 10 seconds to say "you do not" and grin
 

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Completely agree. I use it with friends and family. Had a little spat with my mom a few months ago where she would come to my house and b!tch the whole time she was over about everything I did or didn't do. One time I texted her, after several previous convos, and told her she was no longer welcome at my house. And I didn't talk to her for a week, I blew her off.. At first she thought I was kidding. Until one time she was going to come over. I said no you're not welcome here I was not joking... She called me up practically crying and begging me to let her come over. I didn't that time but later eventually did. And guess what? No more byyyytching... problem solved.
 
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