Advice

[backseatjuan]

I met this girl 29 from another city end of last month. I really liked what I saw in her, nice body, nice personality. We only had two days she was vacationing in my city, we had sex on the beach the last day, then she left. I promised that I will come to her city very soon because I liked what I seen in her. At that time she told me that she is not 100% free. She has a guy that she never met, he is from another city, they met online, they talk over the phone since April, and before she can commit to me she has to meet him in person.

I talked her into me coming over and 9th till tomorrow 19th I spend in her city, half way across country, living at her place. Sex is great. Everything is great. She took days off work to be with me, at first we planned I will stay here until 13th, but then I asked her if she wants me to stay longer, she said yes. She took more days off. This is important because now she can not take more days off for two month, and her pay check is crap from the beginning, now it is even more crap.

She can't answer yes or no to me question whether she wants serious relationship with me including moving over with me, changing city, work, everything. At first she said it is because she can not think at the moment, some crap about her period and nervousness. But then I got to the truth - she still wants to meet that guy. I asked her if she wants to fvck him, she said she just wants to meet him she does not know what will happen.

I asked her if she wants me to come over next month on her birthday, she said yes. I asked her to tell me next time to come over or not, and let her know that if I will come here again it will be serious and I will take her with me. Make up your mind I told her.

 

[parkthebus]

She feel she is a better prospect. This will never work as a LTR because you're frame suggests you're OK with being second choice which suggetlsts that's what you are. If you want just the bang, then be second choice. If you want the all you can eat punani then tell her good luck with the other guy but you will only accept a woman that is committed to you. You may lose the girl instantly, but in the long term its you're only shot.

 

[Desdinova]

She can't answer yes or no to me question whether she wants serious relationship with me including moving over with me, changing city, work, everything.

Please explain WHY this is a good idea.

Her IL isn't very high. You're just there to satisfy her sexual craving while she's waiting for the other guy to come into her life.

before she can commit to me she has to meet him in person.

Why do you want a LTR (and a LDR) with a woman who's keeping you on the backburner? She's going to continue frustrating the hell out of you whether or not you end up with her. Ditch her ass. She's not showing any kind of dedication nor loyalty to you, nor does she want to.

Quit rewarding the dog for 5hitting on the carpet.

 

[parkthebus]

Quit rewarding the dog for 5hitting on the carpet.

 

[Slickster]

She has more interest in a guy she's never even met! That speaks volumes about what she thinks about you doesn't it?

What are you going to do if she goes to meet the guy and comes back and says "I guess I like you after all."

Fawk man the relationship is already over and it never even began. She has no respect for you and never will!

I would have laughed in her face and walked immediately if she said that shyt!

Respect yourself men!