thunder_god
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I'll be on vacation in the vancouver area from june 18-23. I was wondering if anyone in the vancouver area wants to get together and do some cold approaching?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Vancouver BC
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LiveFreeX
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Just curious, I'm wondering what the dating game is like in Vancouver with Chinese?
Here in China there is no contest, you want woman, you only need to express interest and she's signing up to be your wife... what's it like in Canada.
Here in China there is no contest, you want woman, you only need to express interest and she's signing up to be your wife... what's it like in Canada.
thunder_god
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You definitely need game. Women in north american from what I hear are pretty ****ed up compared to the rest of the world. If it was that easy to simply express interest and girls would be signing up to be my wife, I wouldn't need to come here on this forum.LiveFreeX said:
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Two roaches were munching on garbage in an alley when one engages a discussion about a new restaurant."I was in that new restaurant across the street," said one. "It's so clean! The kitchen is spotless, and the floors are gleaming white. There is no dirt anywhere--it's so sanitary that the whole place shines.""Please," said the other roach frowning. "Not while I'm eating!"
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You definitely need game. Women in north american from what I hear are pretty ****ed up compared to the rest of the world. If it was that easy to simply express interest and girls would be signing up to be my wife, I wouldn't need to come here on this forum.
NAT
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
escaleraroyal
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I sarged in China. It's just like in Canada. I expressed my interested, got the number, she stopped replying.