zekko
Master Don Juan
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Ever since I started coming to Sosuave, I've been keeping my eye out for this Alpha Male, this guy who is so amazing with women that we are all supposed to be emulating. I've never quite seemed to find him though. I know lots of guys who cold approach or who are great flirts, but none of them seem to be the intense object of desire for women. And many of them didn't have their life together. I know a few handsome doctor types that girls drool over, but their personalities seem almost feminine, not really alpha types.
Anyway, I finally meet this guy. As we are talking, several of the very prettiest girls come up and talk to him (note that they approach him). They already know him. Most of them act very giggly around him, kind of like the female version of the "dancing clown" or "Mr. Entertainer Guy", they seem to be showing off for him. When I was younger, I might have been intimidated or jealous of this guy, but these days I feel more sure of who I am so I just find it interesting. So I stayed around and talked to him, he was easy to talk to.
Here's what he's like:
1. He's tall, well built, and good looking. Well groomed goatee, mid thirties, dark hair with not a fleck of gray (unlike mine lol).
2. He didin't use any ****y and funny at all. He just talked about everyday things with girls in a very normal way. If anything he came off as kind of serious.
3. He has a decent job, not great, but fairly good. Maybe not even good but fairly good.
4. He had this aura about him, the way he carried himself, that if something were to go down, he would be able to handle it. He had an imposing, dominant physical presence. As I said, he was tall and well built, but there was also something in his manner that suggested that not only COULD he handle a problem if it came up, but he WOULD.
The dude works in a prison so probably some of this comes from that, dealing with convicts.
I'm pretty sure it's mostly 1 and 4 that gets him the attention of the women. And of course 4 is the main lesson you can learn from him here, if you can carry yourself in that way. But remember this guy had the physical presence that made it obvious he could back it up.
There was a bit of an achilles heel to him in that he was kind of moaning about people always talking about him and different women, always claiming he and other women were hooking up or whatever, like people were giving him a kind of player tag. He seemed to paint himself as a victim of it.
Other than that he's probably the closest thing to an alpha male that I have met yet since studying this seduction stuff.
Anyway, I finally meet this guy. As we are talking, several of the very prettiest girls come up and talk to him (note that they approach him). They already know him. Most of them act very giggly around him, kind of like the female version of the "dancing clown" or "Mr. Entertainer Guy", they seem to be showing off for him. When I was younger, I might have been intimidated or jealous of this guy, but these days I feel more sure of who I am so I just find it interesting. So I stayed around and talked to him, he was easy to talk to.
Here's what he's like:
1. He's tall, well built, and good looking. Well groomed goatee, mid thirties, dark hair with not a fleck of gray (unlike mine lol).
2. He didin't use any ****y and funny at all. He just talked about everyday things with girls in a very normal way. If anything he came off as kind of serious.
3. He has a decent job, not great, but fairly good. Maybe not even good but fairly good.
4. He had this aura about him, the way he carried himself, that if something were to go down, he would be able to handle it. He had an imposing, dominant physical presence. As I said, he was tall and well built, but there was also something in his manner that suggested that not only COULD he handle a problem if it came up, but he WOULD.
The dude works in a prison so probably some of this comes from that, dealing with convicts.
I'm pretty sure it's mostly 1 and 4 that gets him the attention of the women. And of course 4 is the main lesson you can learn from him here, if you can carry yourself in that way. But remember this guy had the physical presence that made it obvious he could back it up.
There was a bit of an achilles heel to him in that he was kind of moaning about people always talking about him and different women, always claiming he and other women were hooking up or whatever, like people were giving him a kind of player tag. He seemed to paint himself as a victim of it.
Other than that he's probably the closest thing to an alpha male that I have met yet since studying this seduction stuff.
