SharinganUser
Master Don Juan
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I didn't just stop openning doors for ugly women, I took it a step further. I slam it in their face. Hot women see this show of dominance and then I bone them.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
so true, this fat chick was attacking me then she flipped the script and say a compliment. lol so funnyketostix said:They also try to tactically neg guys and play hard to get. Kind of like the LS girls do.
And since outer beauty is so much more valuable in todays superficial world they think , "why bother to be nice if no no one will care cause i am ugly..?"ketostix said:Eh, my theory is contrary to beauty only being skin deep, that ugly girls are ugly all the way through, defective on the outside and the inside lol.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LOL....:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:SharinganUser said:I didn't just stop openning doors for ugly women, I took it a step further. I slam it in their face. Hot women see this show of dominance and then I bone them.
On paper yes, but in real life NO!...Luke Skywalker said:I've just stumbled upon this thread. The other side of the coin is that pretty girls are less likely to be trusted since they can always pick up another guy easily, which makes them prone to cheating if they are dissatisfied with the relationship or it creates a power imbalance if they feel they could always get better, etc.... while ugly girls are less stressful since you don't have to worry about guys chasing them or hitting on them and there is less competition.
So the question, are ugly girls EASIER than hot girls? That's the only question of any relevance. And I think they are both about the same. I've been friendzoned by both ugly and pretty girls and am equally shy to ask an ugly girl or pretty girl out. So it's like this...if you are gambling, would you rather waste a dollar gambling for a $ 5000 prize or a $ 5 000 000 prize? Chances are you'll lose either way and the odds just vary insubstantially to make a difference.
May as well just go for the pretty girls one time because you'll lose whether ugly or pretty anyway, and have the same social anxieties approaching either type. And if you get rejected by an ugly girl, it's even harder on the ego than if you get rejected by a pretty girl, because the bottom just falls off when that happens.
Yup. Ran into this last weekend when I approached a 3-set. I was confident, cool, sexual, engaging, I looked good, and they tried to neg me AND play hard to get. After an orbiter took two of the uglier ones away I kept eacalating with the better looking one (7 max). She was definitely interested but self-conscious due to her gfs' crap. I kino'd a bit and had her smiling - then her gfs show up again and thats when I decide to bail. The other two were pretty horrid. One was a 5 max and the other probably a 3-4. I didnt feel it was worth it. I wouldnt normally approach a sub-8 but I was bored. I whole-heartedly believe better looking girls are less of a pain in the ass. At least when a hot girl rejects me I get it and their's no prancing around the subject. With an UG they tend to do hard-to-get rejections which arent real rejections. They're projections of low self-esteem.ketostix said:They also try to tactically neg guys and play hard to get. Kind of like the LS girls do.
j-flex said:well, i have been noticing that hot girls are very nice to me, while ugly hoes are very rude to me.
i always thought it was the other way but i was wrong.
for example,
a girl hb9 i just met in class; i called her at 12 am if we could study for an exam the next day, she agreed and we had a good time. ( i went to her department at 1 am so she could help me study, how awsome is that)
all the hot girls in all my classes talk to me, while the ugly ones ignore me and are rude when i try to talk to them.
the other day i saw 2 female classmates, one is as low as a 1 (she looks like an ugly dude) the other one is a 7, i went to talk to them, the 7 started talking to me very kindly, the ugly hoe told me to go away, she said they were bussy.
when i had low self steem, i asked out a lot of ugly girls all of them lower than a 5 (i thought i couldnt do better) ALL of them dissed me, some agreed and then didnt show up.
then i asked a hb9 i barely knew out and she agreed and i had the best date ever, too bad i was too analytical with this so suave stuff i thought she wasnt interested and i didnt pursue, i still regret it but oh well.
Now i have a 7.5 gf and she is very cool and nice.
when i was in high school, all this ugly monsters made fun of me, im talking of real ugly girls, girls that looked like had down syndrome.
now i only talk to hot chicks.
the other day i went to a club and i told a 7 to dance , she said no, then i went with 2 hb9`s and told them to kiss me at the same time , and they did! and i took a pic of that as proof.
what an irony.
So now when you see a hot girl, know for a fact they are way friendlier than ugly rats.
always stick to hot chicks. dont talk to ugly hoes.
i have more examples of how ugly girls are more rude to me than hot chicks if you wanna now.
I think a lot of outer beauty emphasis is perceived. Half of the time its there to sell things and the ones doing the worst judging are the quite young and social media savvy. Still, it's understandable state of mind to be in. Hack me off too being required to play a part in a society that is rejecting you at the same time, to be polite, to be this to get this job....slogging your guts out at work whilst the 'beautiful' get to go through a special side-door to awesome things in life, living on the fringe that you want to be on yourself. I don't care about 'but looks fade with time', we are talking about the here-and-now whilst we waste our youth worrying about our looks, you want me to work government, do you? How's about you f**k off?And since outer beauty is so much more valuable in todays superficial world they think , "why bother to be nice if no no one will care cause i am ugly..?"
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.