I know a lot of you out there have trouble using the ****y and funny technique effectively.
Often times, I hear things like "I don't know what to say", "Am I being too ****y? or funny?", or " How do I start conversation with women with c&f." Well, a decent convo opener would be "Hello". And more than likely she'll say "Hi" back to you. For the first 1:30 secs have regular conversation ask her what kind of music is she into etc. After this point, most guys get stuck and kill the moment.
I have good news for those of you learning the fundamentals behind the c&f technique. The good news is that to be ****y and funny isn't all that complicated. In communication, ****y and funny is mainly meant show that you possess something ' special ' about you. C&F is also used to 'bust' womens 'chops' and help provide 'challenge' for women. But, 70% of C&F is used to show that there is something 'special' that you have, and the woman should want to get whatever it is that is 'special' about you.
Now that you understand the bases behind c&f, how would you approach a HB9 and use it? A lot of us don't know what to say after "hello", "what's up", or whatever 'ice breaker' is used to start a conversation. Well, have any of you thought of using money with c&f? yeah I said it, money. Now, don't take what I said literally. The goal isn't to reach into your wallet, grab a benjamin, and show her the cash, no no! The goal is to be playful and act like sort of like smart-aleck and salesman combined with charisma.
To clear things up for some of you, here is an example of what I mean.
Scenario: I see a single HB 9 sitting on a bench in a park looking at the birds.
Me: Hello
Her: Hi
Me: Are you stalking the birds?
Her: lol, no, I'm *she explains what she's doing*
Me: You know what?
Her What?
Me: Pigeons are cool, I want to own one as a pet.
Her: Why is that?
Me: To direct all other pigeons away from dropping on to my car and on to the other cars!
Her: lol, I'd never thought of that.
Me: By the way, What's your name?
Her: Andrea, what's yours?
Me: King David
Her: Ha, you're a King?
Me: Of course, you know should know that! Look across the way, that's my castle.
Her: Haha, sure ok!
Me: I have A deal, Andrea.
Her: what's that?
*looking at her and over to a pigeon* If You Pay me $50, I'll catch that pigeon right there for you. And for a extra small fee of $30 dollars more, you can have it.
playfully.
Her: lol, no thanks, I'm broke.
Me: Sure you're broke, that's what they all say, you're missing out though. *looking in her eyes while being playful*
Her: haha, whatever.
Me: Well, I'd better get going, it was nice talking to you, Andrea, .
Her: Same to you,.
Me: *walk a few steps, turns around* Hey, Andrea do you have email?
Her: Yeah.
Me: *hands her pen and paper*, make sure it's legible!
Her: Haha, ok.
Me: Cool, now I'll see ya later.
Her: Ok, see you later
See, it's not all that complicated. All you need is a good opener and after you open up the conversation, use your surroundings as helpers to keep the conversation interesting. As mentioned, use money to help your c&f. Until you have learned how to use c&f effectively, money is a good start.
Good Luck
DJ4Real
Often times, I hear things like "I don't know what to say", "Am I being too ****y? or funny?", or " How do I start conversation with women with c&f." Well, a decent convo opener would be "Hello". And more than likely she'll say "Hi" back to you. For the first 1:30 secs have regular conversation ask her what kind of music is she into etc. After this point, most guys get stuck and kill the moment.
I have good news for those of you learning the fundamentals behind the c&f technique. The good news is that to be ****y and funny isn't all that complicated. In communication, ****y and funny is mainly meant show that you possess something ' special ' about you. C&F is also used to 'bust' womens 'chops' and help provide 'challenge' for women. But, 70% of C&F is used to show that there is something 'special' that you have, and the woman should want to get whatever it is that is 'special' about you.
Now that you understand the bases behind c&f, how would you approach a HB9 and use it? A lot of us don't know what to say after "hello", "what's up", or whatever 'ice breaker' is used to start a conversation. Well, have any of you thought of using money with c&f? yeah I said it, money. Now, don't take what I said literally. The goal isn't to reach into your wallet, grab a benjamin, and show her the cash, no no! The goal is to be playful and act like sort of like smart-aleck and salesman combined with charisma.
To clear things up for some of you, here is an example of what I mean.
Scenario: I see a single HB 9 sitting on a bench in a park looking at the birds.
Me: Hello
Her: Hi
Me: Are you stalking the birds?
Her: lol, no, I'm *she explains what she's doing*
Me: You know what?
Her What?
Me: Pigeons are cool, I want to own one as a pet.
Her: Why is that?
Me: To direct all other pigeons away from dropping on to my car and on to the other cars!
Her: lol, I'd never thought of that.
Me: By the way, What's your name?
Her: Andrea, what's yours?
Me: King David
Her: Ha, you're a King?
Me: Of course, you know should know that! Look across the way, that's my castle.
Her: Haha, sure ok!
Me: I have A deal, Andrea.
Her: what's that?
*looking at her and over to a pigeon* If You Pay me $50, I'll catch that pigeon right there for you. And for a extra small fee of $30 dollars more, you can have it.
playfully. Her: lol, no thanks, I'm broke.
Me: Sure you're broke, that's what they all say, you're missing out though. *looking in her eyes while being playful*
Her: haha, whatever.
Me: Well, I'd better get going, it was nice talking to you, Andrea, .
Her: Same to you,
.Me: *walk a few steps, turns around* Hey, Andrea do you have email?
Her: Yeah.
Me: *hands her pen and paper*, make sure it's legible!
Her: Haha, ok.
Me: Cool, now I'll see ya later.
Her: Ok, see you later
See, it's not all that complicated. All you need is a good opener and after you open up the conversation, use your surroundings as helpers to keep the conversation interesting. As mentioned, use money to help your c&f. Until you have learned how to use c&f effectively, money is a good start.
Good Luck
DJ4Real
