soulforge
Master Don Juan
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Christmas Eve 2016, my ex invited me to join her for some takeaway food with her two daughters and there boyfriends.
It was a very busy day and i was extremely rushed.. I had to catch a train to get to her house an hour away, directly after work.. in the rush I did not remember to go to the cash machine!
When the takeaway food arrived, my ex went into her purse pulled some money out, but she only had £10 in there.. So she asked if I had some money??
It then dawned on me, that i had forgot to withdraw cash, so I told her I don't have any cash on me, sorry..
She then in a snappy bytchy way said this, in front of everyone..
DON'T TELL ME YOU HAVE COME OVER HERE WITH NO MONEY IN YOUR POCKETS
So one of the lads had to pay my share for the takeaway.. I felt VERY embarrassed about this, as i felt like a scrounger who did not want to pay his was...
But mostly I felt bad, because my ex spoke to me like that in front of people and showed me up..
She could have quite easily asked me politely to go to the cash machine, or spoke to me in another room about it.. why embarras me for making a mistake.
I was so busy with things, it never came to my mind, and she did not give me any info beforehand how the food would be paid.
Later when everyone left, i bought this incident up with her.. and she basically dismissed my feelings, started raising her voice, said it was ALL my own fault.
This is one of the reasons why me and her broke up... she calimed that I had ruined Christmas for her
It was a very busy day and i was extremely rushed.. I had to catch a train to get to her house an hour away, directly after work.. in the rush I did not remember to go to the cash machine!
When the takeaway food arrived, my ex went into her purse pulled some money out, but she only had £10 in there.. So she asked if I had some money??
It then dawned on me, that i had forgot to withdraw cash, so I told her I don't have any cash on me, sorry..
She then in a snappy bytchy way said this, in front of everyone..
DON'T TELL ME YOU HAVE COME OVER HERE WITH NO MONEY IN YOUR POCKETS
So one of the lads had to pay my share for the takeaway.. I felt VERY embarrassed about this, as i felt like a scrounger who did not want to pay his was...
But mostly I felt bad, because my ex spoke to me like that in front of people and showed me up..
She could have quite easily asked me politely to go to the cash machine, or spoke to me in another room about it.. why embarras me for making a mistake.
I was so busy with things, it never came to my mind, and she did not give me any info beforehand how the food would be paid.
Later when everyone left, i bought this incident up with her.. and she basically dismissed my feelings, started raising her voice, said it was ALL my own fault.
This is one of the reasons why me and her broke up... she calimed that I had ruined Christmas for her