Greetings all. I have come to my wit's end. I'm 26 years old (soon to be 27) and most women do not like me. I've only had one girlfriend in my entire life (and that only lasted for 2 months). I consider myself to be in worse shape than most others in similar situations because I have very little contact with women. I never get a phone call from any of the girls I know or even a lousy e-mail.
Usually, when I'm out with my friends meeting new girls, I'm quickly cast aside or just flat out ignored. Then naturally, the same girls that I was eyeing on earlier will offer me embarrassing advice on picking up women. I'll explain to them that I didn't ask for their advice, and then I'll ask them to not put me in such an awkward situation. I only bring that up because this happens all too often. Well, enough on background for now.
On the rare occasion of when a girl actually likes me, they tend to have baggage. After several years of dealing with these types of women, I found a common bond among them. They all suffered from ultra-low self-esteem. After doing some serious reflecting, most of these girls either had a severally abusive backgrounds, or their family history was riddle with drug and alcohol abuse.
What does this mean? I truly do not prefer to be with women who have low self-esteem. I know some guys purposely target these women to control them. I just want a normal girl. I believe if I am able to successfully turn away these women, than most other women will begin to like me.
I have no idea what it is that I do wrong. I know I am a fairly good looking guy. I'm not Hollywood by any means, but not bad looking. I am shorter than the average height, but not by much. I'm 5'6", but I do wear elevator shoes that boosts my height to 5'8" (the shoes are not noticeable, and yes, they do seem to help lol.) I don't have any tattoos or piercings and I dress casual. But you know what, I don't think any of that matters. How many times I witnessed a guy sweeping a girl off her feet wearing a torn shirt and not bathed for days. I have heard and tried every bad cliché. I need clear, unbiased, insight for a change.
Anyone wanna take shot at this?
Usually, when I'm out with my friends meeting new girls, I'm quickly cast aside or just flat out ignored. Then naturally, the same girls that I was eyeing on earlier will offer me embarrassing advice on picking up women. I'll explain to them that I didn't ask for their advice, and then I'll ask them to not put me in such an awkward situation. I only bring that up because this happens all too often. Well, enough on background for now.
On the rare occasion of when a girl actually likes me, they tend to have baggage. After several years of dealing with these types of women, I found a common bond among them. They all suffered from ultra-low self-esteem. After doing some serious reflecting, most of these girls either had a severally abusive backgrounds, or their family history was riddle with drug and alcohol abuse.
What does this mean? I truly do not prefer to be with women who have low self-esteem. I know some guys purposely target these women to control them. I just want a normal girl. I believe if I am able to successfully turn away these women, than most other women will begin to like me.
I have no idea what it is that I do wrong. I know I am a fairly good looking guy. I'm not Hollywood by any means, but not bad looking. I am shorter than the average height, but not by much. I'm 5'6", but I do wear elevator shoes that boosts my height to 5'8" (the shoes are not noticeable, and yes, they do seem to help lol.) I don't have any tattoos or piercings and I dress casual. But you know what, I don't think any of that matters. How many times I witnessed a guy sweeping a girl off her feet wearing a torn shirt and not bathed for days. I have heard and tried every bad cliché. I need clear, unbiased, insight for a change.
Anyone wanna take shot at this?