PlayHer Man speaks the truth. He may say it in a harsh fashion, but since far too many men don't seem to get it, there is clearly a need for a strong voice of reason. His words, and the lesson in them, are much less harsh than the reality men face everyday in the real world. Try divorce court, try custody battles, try life-long alimony payments to a cheating former spouse and you'll see how gentle these harsh words now seem.
Since the Red Pill - Blue Pill analogy has become so well accepted, and with the resistance to PlayHer Man's message, it seems another quote from The Matrix is appropriate in this debate:
"You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it."
If you want kids and a family one day, this lesson is even more important for you. Go into the situation with knowledge and you stand a far better chance of surviving. Go in with ignorance and you face a bleak future.
It appears that PlayHer Man has been banned, and personally I think this is a loss to the community. The messenger has been shot, but at least those still fighting to protect The Matrix will no longer get their feelings hurt by a stranger on the internet.