sazc
Master Don Juan
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We definitely raised the bar, but we did it because we needed to go back to work, so we need help at home.So then the question is. Have women raised the bar for their expectations, or have men lowered their own bar? I would lean towards the latter.
Call what correctly? Your fvcking pissed because I'm not simple mindedly focused on what a sh1thead SHE is for a direct hit on him? How ignorant and destructive she is being TO the relationship in her attempt to shame him to get him to help her? She's an idiot and she's being destructive to her relationship. She's KILLING any trust bond they had. There's a thousand derrogatory things I could say about her choices, but I thought that was SO OBVIOUS to everyone, why bother?There's nothing ground-breaking here. It's a woman being a woman, with social media highlighting how many retards there are out there that think it's OK.
Communication?? LOLOL
The only thing that matters in any relationship is the woman's IL in the man. He can communicate until he's blue in the face and it won't mean a thing.
If this woman was hot for her husband there's NO WAY she humiliates him on facebook in this way. Communication? Are you kidding me? If he was a high enough status man in her chick mind then she wouldn't give two sh*ts if he had orgies every weekend while she sits at home and feeds babies.
That is the problem I have here with you - call it, CORRECTLY, what it is.
People can be a$$holes. Women make choices based off their emotions and how hurt they feel, so their choices can be extremely hateful and destructive. It's old news. You guys will cover that, you always do!
I'm a problem solver by nature. Nothing gets solved by focusing ON the fvcked up nature OF the event. That's obvi. I focus on the root cause of the event, and how to not have it happen again.
Trust me, the root cause is not that the woman is a biznatch. That's simple minded thinking. The root cause is the relationship, and (as you mentioned) the dynamics of the relationship.
Ur not going to see a lot of trite label assigning from me. I won't begrudge you of your right to do that, but that's not who I am, with men or women. I look for the deeper motivations.