california girl
New Member
WELL i too must admit as a woman , that I came on this site to see why it is that men cheat and why I too a beautiful, stunning sexy woman who can have any SINGLE man i can want for..winds up again with a married man. I think i am scared of beig hurt..not that dating a married man isnt painful..MEN please listen...the women your cheating with is so happy when she is with you...but you are not with her i guarentee she cries A LOT! MY saying is..it hurts to stay and it hurts to leave..so we stay..there is nothing in a relationship for us single women that fall in love with a married man. some do it for money..but 99 percent dont..i dont know why i repEATt the pattern....i am scared...i think it has to do with growing up fatherless, a result of being used by men..believe it or not it is easier for an average looking ok..plain jane to have a normal relationship..than a blonde bomb. i lived my whole life as a married man magnet...wanting to be seen with me..(i found out to late)i am not tryin to be vain..i am spilling my hurt..again recently i found myself with a married lover..the most magnificient one(Which is a very hard comment to say from my experience)lover ...ill ever have..i said that once ...8 years ago...but no me this man is so incredible although I want toleave...i sexually cant. i feel like i knew him my whole life and never been so comfortable with someone ever. So married men....what makes u go after those covergirls...if they werent covergirls would u still cheat...what do u think about when your with them....what excuses /bs stories do u give when u have to leave so u wont get caught. my married men...are sexual chemistry is so intense and beyond passionable..yet he told me he is getting scared and that he goes away when he gets that way..thats his way of dealing i guess...why would he tell me that...what does that mean?