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While I understand that a girl will get validation if someone like me asks her to hang out, I'm confused on what you consider "physical validation."blueguy said:Girls live on validation. They prefer physical validation. But they won't give physical validation to guys they hold control over (ie: losers).
You didn't give her physical validation. She doesn't know whether she was rejected or if you are a loser (she holds control over you). Either way, the window is lost.
Now she's seeking validation by you hanging out with her to prove that you do find her attractive and remain her control on you. It is an ego boost. The longer you drag it out, the more control she has and the less likely you will ever be able to have sex with her.